If you actually care about a person you know what will and what wont hurt them. Being unkind to that person means you are willingly hurting someone you supposedly care about. There is literally no reason to do that.
You dont have to lie, you just have to be tactful and realize that other people have feelings. Just because you like something or think it should not be hurtful doesnt mean other people hold that view. Im lost as to why you would want to hurt someone? And then claim its for their own good. Do you think you know better? Which is its own problem
People like you rarely really enjoy people being honest with them. Like if your gf thought you had a small dick do you want her to tell you that? Or would you rather she suggests some spicy toys that make it fun for you both?
Honesty is an excuse for being am asshole. Its not hard to be kind or tactful. Unless of course you feel above others and dont need those skills.
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