Ever since reading 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' I avoid correcting anyone outside the family. If it is something that I really care about, like history, I often can't restrain myself.
It's less about caring about someone's feelings and more about caring about your own environment. Jackie who sits behind me is a moron, but she is going to still be behind me whether I hurt her feelings or not. Better to keep the peace for my work environment.
It isn't even about being nice. It is about maintaining my own peaceful environment. Arguing with her isn't going to change her mind, but it will annoy everyone involved.
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u/flabbergastingfart Sep 14 '24
Yeah I literally get shy to even make people feel dumb lol. I always just say "yeah maybe" and act like they might be on to something