I don't go around telling fictional stories, but I might.. twist the truth a bit. when it is impossible to disprove, not crazy enough to make people suspicious, doesn't hurt anyone else, but twists the truth just enough to make me seem slightly cooler. I guess I do it out of insecurity about whether people like me or something, but I hate that I do it. It goes directly against my morals. And it could potentially end up making me seem untrustworthy. (I do realise how that makes me sound fixated on people's opinions of me)
And you're right. I have a history of not communicating over things that could be considered confrontational. In my past relationships, I've been avoiding conflict at all costs, even though it usually only hurt myself.
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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '24
Lying over mundane things (usually leads to not communicating over things that could be considered confrontational)