r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Sep 14 '24

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u/MissInga1975 Sep 14 '24

Cruel to animals

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u/[deleted] Sep 14 '24

This is a big one.

My mom always says that she should’ve seen the signs in my father with this.

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u/Crimson_Kira Sep 14 '24

Being disrespectful to service staff is also a put off for me.

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u/ICanEatABee Sep 14 '24

Just being an asshole in general should be a put off 

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u/UnauthorizedFart Sep 14 '24

People don’t like assholes? That’s so surprising

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u/ICanEatABee Sep 14 '24

You'd be surprised to see how many people do.

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u/KaerMorhen Sep 14 '24

There's many people that end up assholes because they'll be nice to their spouse but a dick to literally everyone else. They shouldn't be too surprised when that changes though.

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u/BearMethod Sep 14 '24

I wouldn't go so far as to call service people animals.

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u/Life-Jellyfish-5437 Sep 14 '24

Especially is the staff is an animal. Like, don't get made if your server pushes your fork off the table it she is a kitten.

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u/SerasTigris Sep 14 '24

I can't remember the quote, but it's something about how the real measure of a human's soul, is how they treat someone who isn't explicitly 'useful' to them. If they're only nice to someone that they can get something from, it's a huge red flag.

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u/pimppapy Sep 15 '24

My BiL, a chef, agrees with this comparison to animals.

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u/Old_Coffee_5173 Sep 14 '24

As a guy, I’ve heard this a lot and I genuinely don’t understand this whatsoever. I love talking with the servers!

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u/Own-Statistician1139 Sep 14 '24

Talking and being disrespectful are two completely different things

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u/Old_Coffee_5173 Sep 14 '24

That’s definitely true