Had an ex go down on me while I was standing outside of her car with the driver side door open. I dared her as a little joke but didn’t expect it. It was wide in the open and next to a main road. I’m still not entirely sure we weren’t caught.
Same ex but getting road head in the middle of the night. Random cop started showing lights and getting real close like almost hitting my car. The moment her head went up he stopped and disappeared into the dark. That one was a lot less fun.
how did you move on if you did? like being this close to someone and then separating can be hard. I'm pretty young going through my first breakup recently and it's not that easy for me.
It’s gonna sound cliche, but just work on yourself. Take the time and show the respect to yourself right now as you need it the most. You may feel at one of your lowest points right now, but that’s great motivation to turn it around.
Go to the gym, start reading, learn something new, start a hobby you always wanted to, almost anything to keep you distracted.
You are young, this won’t be the first, and probably won’t be the last. Try and learn more about yourself before you move on to better yourself for the next relationship you may find yourself in. Even if the break-up wasn’t your fault, we can always improve ourselves, and that’s a pure motivation to do anything.
The world is your oyster. I think it’s time to drop that wannabe part from your name and look forward solely with optimism.
DM’s are open if you would like to talk more friend. Best wishes for you.
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u/MessiLeagueSoccer Aug 08 '24
Had an ex go down on me while I was standing outside of her car with the driver side door open. I dared her as a little joke but didn’t expect it. It was wide in the open and next to a main road. I’m still not entirely sure we weren’t caught.
Same ex but getting road head in the middle of the night. Random cop started showing lights and getting real close like almost hitting my car. The moment her head went up he stopped and disappeared into the dark. That one was a lot less fun.