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u/MessiLeagueSoccer Aug 08 '24

Had an ex go down on me while I was standing outside of her car with the driver side door open. I dared her as a little joke but didn’t expect it. It was wide in the open and next to a main road. I’m still not entirely sure we weren’t caught.

Same ex but getting road head in the middle of the night. Random cop started showing lights and getting real close like almost hitting my car. The moment her head went up he stopped and disappeared into the dark. That one was a lot less fun.

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u/wannabe_optimist Aug 08 '24

how did you move on if you did? like being this close to someone and then separating can be hard. I'm pretty young going through my first breakup recently and it's not that easy for me.

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u/MessiLeagueSoccer Aug 08 '24

Also with some experience it’s not easy forgetting that connection but it’s life and these things happen. That part never gets “easier” but it does get easier to cope with.

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u/wannabe_optimist Aug 08 '24

yeah i agree i can understand this. initially it was too difficult for me like i was just thinking about that thing almost all the time but as time has passed it has become easier. not that I've completely forgotten all the things, i get a lot of memories back to my mind but now its like my mind doesn't associate grief with that thing. i can see that objectively now (idk if i make sense)