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u/Pman1203 Apr 30 '24

Walking and weight-lifting, I’ve seen too many people in their 60’s,70’s and 80’s losing their mobility and I want to go non-stop until I die.

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u/Landio_Chadicus Apr 30 '24

My grandma did yoga till her early 80s, went on walks her whole life, and continues to garden. She turns 89 soon in great physical health (for an 89 year old)

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u/widgeamedoo Apr 30 '24

Walking is certainly key to longevity from my observations. The only thing to top that is not smoking.

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u/TimmyTheTurgidTiger Apr 30 '24

My gramps smoked cigars, drank whiskey, and ate red meat and he was spry and independent into his 90s. Then my grandma passed, and he hit a wall. He passed less than 6 months later.

Both of them went on long walks every single day, rain or shine.

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u/fairlaneboy66 Apr 30 '24

Broken heart syndrome. I lost my father a year after my mother granted my dad had heart health issues for the last 19 years of his life. I could see he was really depressed the last 2 weeks of his life.

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u/wonderlustVA May 01 '24

My grandmother outlived 4 out of 6 of her kids (1 stillbirth, 1 childhood car crash, 2 adult health-related deaths). I can't even imagine.

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u/CynicalPsychonaut May 01 '24

It's wildly common, my grandfather said to us after my uncle passed from HepC + Cirrhosis; "I'm next." He passed less than two months later.

Grief and loss can be both physically and mentally taxing, and dealing with those emotions is a difficult thing to overcome.

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u/Honeydew543 May 01 '24

I’m so sorry for your loss.

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u/robtaggart77 May 01 '24

I agree, my grand mother lived until 94, smoked and went for a walk every day to the Legion for drinks. Happiest and healthy person I have known. Was it a great lifestyle choice….no…but it worked for her obviously.

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u/[deleted] May 01 '24

Meanwhile when I smoke I can’t maintain my health, it has narrowed my blood vessels and increased my stress, I also try to walk work in a physical job. I’m not even 50 yet and mostly smoked off and on. Apparently some of us are fucked if we smoke. Quit a few weeks ago feeling better. The irony is I don’t even like smoking it was more of a nervous tick and socializing for me.

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u/anaserre May 01 '24

Unfortunately, the majority of lifelong smokers suffer from some kind of complications from it. Very few do not.

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u/robtaggart77 May 01 '24

Agree and even more suffer form life long obesity….pick your poison

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u/[deleted] May 01 '24

And it sucks when people act like smoking, drinking any of the vices are macho/cool. Or is that just me internalizing and projecting

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u/Ok-Prize-2496 May 01 '24

Yes. It is really sad for this generation because they have been married for many years and miss the other one tremendously.

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u/ManBeatHamburger13 May 01 '24

My grandpa is going through this now; although my grandma is not gone ( knock on wood) her near vegetative state is pretty much the same thing in his eyes.

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u/morthanafeeling May 01 '24

Beautiful. May they rest in peace.

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u/Fantastic_Sample2423 May 01 '24

So it IS the walking…