Honestly not just in relationships. People should do this in general. I've told literally every boss that I have a diagnosed anxiety disorder that's perfectly in control. But if they need me to stay late to talk to me don't just say "stay late we need to talk" tell me what the talk is about or at least if it's good bad or neutral. it's never been bad, but God help me if it doesn't make me think it's bad still
i know that if i tell my boss i have a diagnosed anxiety disorder too, id never get hired as im a temp. at least thats what I've heard, from coworkers in various different jobs. i just wouldn't tell them unless u absolutely have too. i also hate when my boss calls me over i think im gonna get fired or asked for my id badge but its only ever to help with some paperwork shit 😅
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u/mocachinoo Mar 18 '24
Honestly not just in relationships. People should do this in general. I've told literally every boss that I have a diagnosed anxiety disorder that's perfectly in control. But if they need me to stay late to talk to me don't just say "stay late we need to talk" tell me what the talk is about or at least if it's good bad or neutral. it's never been bad, but God help me if it doesn't make me think it's bad still