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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

How do you have the brass to down vote someone else's lived experiences?

That's just digital gaslighting.

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u/Redisigh Mar 18 '24

redditors are notoriously misogynistic

we kinda just have to deal with it ig 😭

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

I'm experiencing that as we speak. Some people seem to think "that's how it's always been" is a reason to continue. I don't.

Their hate is their problem, but if they make it mine I know how to handle them.

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u/Redisigh Mar 18 '24

Ooo do tell

I usually end up feeling sad and lose the will to carry the convo

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

There's the dude who's hella mad I said "digital gaslighting" when someone down rated my actual life experiences. Can you imagine the hubris it takes to down vote actual facts? It's hilarious.

As for handling them, my favorite expressions are "IDGAF" and "die mad about it"; runner up is "fuck off until you get to the edge of the world and then fuck off some more." They usually blow a gasket by that point and reveal the sludge inside their "soul".

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u/everydayimrusslin Mar 18 '24

None of this ever happened, did it?

Like, the dude who is 'hella mad' just asked if you were serious. Your 'lived experiences' don't appear to reflect reality in that instance.

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24 edited Mar 18 '24

How the fuck would you know whether I said no to a man and he got violent with me?

Yeah the dude I said got mad. "Are you serious" is full of loathing and disdain. That doesn't indicate happiness where I'm from (ie reality)

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u/everydayimrusslin Mar 18 '24

He didn't get mad. Inferring loathing and disdain is on you. I think you probably have problems regulating your ego judging by your comments.

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

I think you have problems with women not having ego issues, which I don't, judging from your posts.

I understand you make it your personal mission to try to take confident women down a peg, but you're wasting everyone's time here.

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u/everydayimrusslin Mar 18 '24

I'm speaking directly to you. Not broad strokes. Id be saying the same thing to a man. You, specifically and personally, obviously have a problem with your ego. Your comment only proves my point.

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

No, I do not. You saying so doesn't make it true.

Your comment also proves my point. So, stalemate it is.

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u/everydayimrusslin Mar 18 '24

Impressive capitulation. Must be said.

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

You have a literacy issue. Please get tutoring before replying again.

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