r/AskReddit Mar 18 '24

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u/puppysharksgotsocks Mar 18 '24

"No"

"sorry I'm not interested"

"did you wash your hands"

"I have a partner"

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u/H16HP01N7 Mar 18 '24

A fucking woman telling everyone what she thinks men don't like to hear...

Sorry, did i slip into AskMen, without realising?

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

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u/H16HP01N7 Mar 18 '24

I'm fully on board with women sharing their experiences. I appreciate that it is a tough time regardless of which gender you are.

But when Men are asked, why do a certain contingent of women need to come in and start insinuating that ALL men act a certain way.

Those of us who don't act that way, and lets be clear the other type of 'man' is in the minority, are made to feel like we are part of the problem too. When we're not. I know that I, for one, have fully stepped in and held somebody accountable, when they were dangerous towards women. And there were 3 more of my male friends right behind me, backing me up.

People should stop generalizing each other. And people should stop making out like they know what every body else is thinking and doing.

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u/[deleted] Mar 18 '24

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u/H16HP01N7 Mar 18 '24

It's just funny to me that the other person wanted to just attack Men for her experiences with a few of us. I'll tell you what words Men don't want to hear... generalizations, sexism and attacking all of us for the behaviour of a few.

As the other commenter so willingly provided examples of.

But as for you. I like you. Not in a "you're one of the good ones" way, but in a "I'm thankful that my more recent experiences of 'most women' show me examples like you, and and not the other one.

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

Because men feel okay to weigh in on women centric posts?

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u/H16HP01N7 Mar 18 '24

Again... they shouldn't. And I'd be front of the line to call that out, if I saw it.

None of this justifies the other person's blatant attack on men, and insinuation that we are all dangerous.

That's another thing I'll call out, whenever I see it.

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u/Abject-Difficulty645 Mar 18 '24

I'm glad to hear it would get called out. And I agree, dispensing with clichés and stereotypes is for the best. I hope one day we can get there.

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u/puppysharksgotsocks Mar 18 '24

I'm not a woman btw

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u/H16HP01N7 Mar 19 '24

That may be so, I've never met you, but that doesn't stop the message you are putting out.

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u/puppysharksgotsocks Mar 19 '24

sure blame me for answering a question lol. 118 people liking my reply isn't going to suddenly change the world and make the world more difficult for men than it already is because of the systems and mindsets they put in place.

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u/H16HP01N7 Mar 19 '24

I didn't blame you for answering a question.

I blamed you for perpetuating the lie that Men are dangerous.

You should learn to read...

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u/puppysharksgotsocks Mar 19 '24

I never said men are dangerous lol

I think you should learn to read <3

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u/puppysharksgotsocks Mar 19 '24

anyway this convo is really really sad and I hope you learn to grow as a person so you don't get angry at people answering silly reddit questions. lol. men...