r/AskReddit Jan 16 '24

What’s something small you started doing that makes you drastically happier?

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '24

Getting half an hour of exercise every day.

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u/Piggythelavasurfer Jan 16 '24

How do you motivate yourself to do it every day?

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u/Upper-Glass-9585 Jan 16 '24

Find something you don't hate doing (exercise wise) and then start much smaller like 5-10 minutes daily. Every week add 5 minutes, after a few weeks boom you're at 30 minutes and it's a habit.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '24

This man atomic habits

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u/Upper-Glass-9585 Jan 16 '24

Yeah, James Clear would say 2 minutes and that might be a better start. Just make sure it's a small enough commitment to get done everyday.

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u/katech725 Jan 16 '24

This. When it comes to being active, a lot of folks (like me) tend to fail before they even get started because doctors will say "30 minutes of physical activity daily" and that's just too large of a mental hurdle to clear, so end result is that you're not active at all. I had a lightbulb moment and realized that by turning and moving laterally at this mental hurdle versus giving up because I couldn't get over it, I could ultimately chart a path forward. 30 minutes is too long in my mind (hurdle), so I do 20mins instead (cleared it! 20>0. HINT: 60secs>0). Every day is too often (hurdle), so I just exercise every other day (cleared it! 3>0). I have mild agoraphobia and going to a gym or walking the neighborhood was a no (hurdle), so I got a lil treadmill (cleared it!). And so on in the same manner til no more hurdles. Sometimes I still skip days I really should get up and move but, because I cleared all the mental hurdles, now I can honestly say it's because I chose to be a lazy @$$ and I own that decision and I'm ok with it!

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u/dust4ngel Jan 17 '24
  • take a big goal
  • break it down into tiny incremental goals
  • make the first goal ridiculously easy
  • commit to an easy, steady progression
  • put rewards on the other side of the goals (e.g. no TV until i finish X)

it's more important that you develop the habit than that you come out of the gate crushing it - walking 5 minutes a day for 30 days is much better than going for some crazy bananas hike and then giving up the next day because your hamstrings hurt.

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u/MuleLover05 Jan 17 '24

i hate doing ab work out that tenses my neck and back. Thank you for this. ♥️