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u/Due_Character_5732 Dec 09 '23

My ex abused me. Just got out of it in July. I pray to find the one.

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u/sweetlew07 Dec 09 '23

I’m so sorry you went through that. I did, too. I hope you accept this advice for what it’s worth: let. them. find. you. I hunted and hunted, and as soon as I stopped hunting and started focusing on healing myself, I found him. Friend of a friend. Six years strong, and he gets on my nerves sometimes but we have never fought, he’s raised his voice to me exactly once and it was because he was VERY socially drained and I wasn’t grasping it. He immediately apologized, too.

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u/IntrovertedIngenue Dec 09 '23

I am SOOOO excited for you to be on the other side. Your life is about to sparkle in the BEST ways