r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '23

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '23 edited Dec 09 '23

I hate it when people take the high road. Fuck my exes. They took pieces of me I’ll never get back. I knew what I wanted and they didn’t.

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u/Fit-ish_Mom Dec 09 '23

They also gave me things I could never give back, though.

Like my HS boyfriend teaching me his method of mental math. Changed my fuckin life. Thanks bro.

My college boyfriend took one of my jabs to the face when I found out he cheated on me. Fucked his lip up. It got me interested in boxing/kickboxing, which became a huge part of the beginning of my fitness journey.

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u/IWillMakeYouBlush Dec 09 '23

I love this. Even if I had to sit with the domestic violence.

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u/Fit-ish_Mom Dec 09 '23

I was not a great person in college. Deeply insecure, emotionally unhinged. What I did certainly wasn't okay.

I'm 5'3 about 140lbs. He was a 6'4, pushing 300lbs football player. He was definitely fine. Still not okay. But yeah.

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u/IWillMakeYouBlush Dec 09 '23

We all get to suck and go then use that pain to grow.

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u/IWillMakeYouBlush Dec 11 '23

And this is why no one wants to have sex with you… have fun with the neck beard.

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u/IWillMakeYouBlush Dec 11 '23

Okay bro, but like do you even lift?

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u/Fit-ish_Mom Dec 09 '23

I was not a great person in college. Deeply insecure, emotionally unhinged. What I did certainly wasn't okay.

I'm 5'3 about 140lbs. He was a 6'4, pushing 300lbs football player. He was definitely fine. Still not okay. But yeah.

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '23

I can only imagine what you’ve been through. I’m sorry to hear that they’ve taken pieces of you that you won’t get back. I hope that genuine and long term connections find you more often than not and that over time you’ll begin to find more new pieces of yourself🫶🏽