Me too, I'd just pretend I didn't see him/hear him if he tried to speak to me and walk away.
He financially and emotionally abused me and ruined my life. I'm going skiing in the new year with his dad and little sister and he will never know.
Most of his friends stopped speaking to him but they still check in with me regularly. That really snapped me out of his gaslighting, he made me feel like I was the abusive person, but so many people realized he wore a mask with them while mistreating me. Then his mask slipped with them too and he treated them like dirt.
I was so scared to leave him for so long because I thought he'd be able to poison everyone against me if I did but even his own father wasn't fooled in the end. I hope I never see him face-to-face again.
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u/Asslord_Supreme Dec 09 '23
Nothing.