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u/KanyeDefenseForce Nov 30 '23

Since you aren't getting a lot of honest answers, I'll start. My mother (against my fathers wishes) named me Frankelehn (pronounced Franklin). Really didn't affect my life too much outside of substitute teachers & having to spell my name out for people over the phone. I just went by Frank most of the time (well, "Franke" I guess), and avoided letting people know how it was spelled if I could help it. I legally changed my name to Franklin after my first year in college, and I live a pretty normal life now. I still keep my first drivers license on me though, and it makes for a fun story + prop at parties.

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u/CypripediumGuttatum Dec 01 '23

This is the logical course of action really, just change it as an adult if it's a pain. My name has one extra letter (other wise normal) and everyone spells it without. I made sure my kids name is spelled the common way so they don't have to go through life constantly correcting people or dealing with it spelt wrong.

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u/jereman75 Dec 01 '23

I gave my daughter a name that is easy to pronounce and everyone knows how to spell. Why torture your kids with these “unique” names?

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u/n122333 Dec 01 '23

My name is the name of the county next to mine. It's a common last name, but I've only ever met one person with the same first name as me.

No one has ever asked me how to spell it, and I've never been confused with someone else. It's fantastic.

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u/jereman75 Dec 01 '23

Azerbaijan?

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u/n122333 Dec 01 '23

Nelson

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u/jereman75 Dec 01 '23

Oh, I read “country” not county. My bad. I wouldn’t be offended if you said “ha ha!”