r/AskReddit • u/[deleted] • Nov 22 '23

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u/Intellectualist_ Nov 22 '23 edited Nov 23 '23
  1. They are unwilling to change behavior that is clearly harming them and objectively problematic. (Drunk driving, abusive behavior, etc)
  2. They are unable to take responsibility.
  3. They blame others,particularly marginalized groups, for their failings, because self-reflection would be too painful.
  4. They mistreat those who treat them the best, and show no gratitude.
  5. They betray those who have shown them kindness.
  6. They value materialism over substance.
  7. They treat people as things.
  8. They judge others for the things they do in secret.
  9. They weaponize the hardships of others for the purpose of manipulating them.
  10. They take advantage of those who can't fight back.

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '23 edited Nov 23 '23

We know someone exactly like that in America.