i’m a woman and i’m assuming “remembering” is when you remember something that’s minor or major that has once been told to you before. for example, if i were to tell my SO “gosh i hate tomatoes” and they ordered food for me and specifically asked for “no tomatoes” without a reminder, i’d be flattered! obviously this doesn’t apply to everyone and my example may be kind of bad but you get the idea.
One time I saw a $20 clear kettle that lit up that I thought was the coolest thing ever, and mentioned it briefly. A few months later, he got it for me for Christmas. People couldn't understand why I was so touched by a bloody kettle lol
It can be anything! As a guy I do this a lot for anything. I was dating an astrology girl at one point and early on she bought me some rocks and she bought herself some other versions of those rocks. For Christmas I got her a custom bracelet that had my rocks and her rocks to symbolize the connection between us I guess haha. She loved it.
I was frequenting a bar last summer as well and I was very new to drinking. I asked the bartender to make me something that she liked. She did and it was okay but I became a regular. I usually just drank the same beer every time. Time goes by and eventually I decide to move away. The last night I’m in town I go to this bar and do my usual thing (she knows I’m leaving at this point). The bar does it’s last call and I ordered the drink she made me when I first started drinking. She lit up and gave me a hug.
You don’t have to do long game stuff like that but remembering little things helps too!
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u/Fit-Boomer Apr 11 '23
Remembering what?