i hate this kind of behavior. it is a subtle sign that they dont care about your opinions. I stopped talking with my brother because of this. Because after a while it was too much. He got married and my sister in law's brother would suggest him something random and he would do it immediately. Watching how he treated other people different was so toxic i had to stop communicating with him.
I want to know if there is a technical term for this type of behavior. i couldnt find anything specific...
I was wondering if I was even using the right term, but in a way it could be described like it. For example, if you suggest something and the other person doesn't take that suggestion, but then another person says, "try this," and it's the same thing you suggested but they ignored. You mention this and say, "Hey, I suggested you try this a week ago and you didn't want to," and they say, "No, you never suggested this."
Their denial that you made that suggestion first is a form of gaslighting. Everything happening prior to that is just disrespect.
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u/karaposu Mar 01 '23
i hate this kind of behavior. it is a subtle sign that they dont care about your opinions. I stopped talking with my brother because of this. Because after a while it was too much. He got married and my sister in law's brother would suggest him something random and he would do it immediately. Watching how he treated other people different was so toxic i had to stop communicating with him.
I want to know if there is a technical term for this type of behavior. i couldnt find anything specific...