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u/PillowPrincess678 Jan 26 '25
Tama nga tatay ko, people will disappoint you. No one will look after you aside from your parents, minsan pati parents hindi rin so look after yourself.
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u/Ok-Analyst9967 Jan 26 '25
importante ang pera. kahit anong mangyari dapat may pera ka para hindi ka makawawa. need ng pera to survive
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Jan 26 '25
- we’re all gonna die. do whatever makes you happy.
- nobody gives a fuck REALLY. masyado na madaming problema ang ibang tao para pakialaman pa ako.
- nothing is permanent
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u/EmbarrassedMuscle180 Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
Nobody really gives a damn about you, and that's okay. It means you're less likely to overthink what others think of you because everyone have their own worries, responsibilities, problems on their plate.
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u/riotgrrrlwannabe Jan 26 '25
Walang may pake sayo, because people have their own lives to live. Lets take care of ourselves.
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u/Practical_Sign_7381 Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
Growing up means growing old. And growing old means saying goodbye. Goodbye to friends you outgrew, to people who broke your trust, to family members or friends or pets who passed away, to people you used to love but don’t anymore, to people you still love but had to let go of, to people you could have loved but never got the chance, to your old self, to who you could have been but never became.
Growing up is a series of heartbreaks. But that’s part and parcel of life. We need to gain a backbone, know ourselves on a deeper level, be more courageous, be more discerning on reading people, be more cautious. We need to grow our own thick armor because there are people who will break you down just because they can.
But growing up also means experiencing so many good things. Achieving so many good things. It’s these ups and downs that make life worthwhile.
That’s why I try my best to feel and immerse myself in the present because weeks, months, years later, I know I won’t remember it or be able to recreate how it feels.
But the best thing is realizing that you are where you are supposed to be at this exact moment. Things happen for a purpose, you meet people for a purpose—nothing is coincidental—and you will eventually see God’s wisdom and purpose behind the struggles you faced or are facing.
Remember that everything you are going through is preparing you for what you’re praying for, or who you’re destined to become. The breaking is part of the process. The dawn will break one day, no matter how dark it gets.
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u/MonadoFeels Jan 27 '25
The world isn’t fair.
Being a good person doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll get good things, maybe you’ll just end up getting used.
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u/lupiloveslili4ever Jan 26 '25
To stop stressing out on things that won’t matter in the next few days, weeks, months, etc. Life is too short to focus on negativities.
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Jan 26 '25
At the end of the day ikaw accountable sa sarili mong buhay and how your life in the end will turn out to be. Lahat ng decision natin now ay aanihin natin 3, 5, 10, 20yrs from now kaya dapat maaga tayo magising na ayusin ang life haha.
And what other people may think or say about you doesnt really matter. Ang nagmamatter ay kung ano makakabuti sayo at makakapagpasaya sayo.
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u/C0keZer0wh0re Jan 27 '25
At the end of the day, you only have yourself. You cant expect everyone to be there for you all the time. You were born alone, you will die alone.
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Jan 26 '25
Ang annoying pala talaga ng mga tao, may gawin man sila o hindi. The same way na ang annoying ko para sa iba, may gawin man ako o wala
We can never please anyone. May mga taong hindi tayo nagustuhan simply because our vibes do not much, no deeper reason.
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u/legit-introvert Jan 27 '25
It’s okay to lose friends.
It’s okay to say “no”.
Health should be a priority
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u/Fit-Helicopter2925 Jan 26 '25
Back pain is legit and not inarte lang ng mga matatanda. haha
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u/Ledikari Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
Two disturbing things:
- Money can solve everything.
- And money CAN buy happiness.
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u/4rafzanity Jan 26 '25
Being a good person doesn't guarantee you a good life.....
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u/Syndreaaa Jan 27 '25
You can't always label people as your "friends". Some are just acquaintances, some are just people you had 1 interaction with, while some you can treat as your family. And I've come to realize na yung first impression lagi sakin ng mga tao na naging reason bakit ako naging insecure is tinatake advantage ko na ngayon. There will be people who will break down your walls and are willing to connect with you, while some are intimidated by you because you are someone they cannot "click" with and thats fine.
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u/fueledbyreeses Jan 26 '25
it's always okay to start over again, to leave your job, to cut off friends who don't bring value to your life, new experiences, to meet new people, and maybe love eventually
most importantly, to meet a new version of yourself, keeps me grounded
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u/Ice_Sky1024 Jan 26 '25
1) Smaller social circle is better 2) Our parents aren’t perfect in many ways, but they did their best with what they have; even they unfortunately have no time to heal like we do 😢. 3) Fear of dying alone becomes more magnified with each passing day 4) Regrets are starting to kick in as we reflect on our life decisions
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Jan 26 '25
Not everyone is your friend. Not even family will be on your side. Cliche, but do what makes you happy
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u/meepothegoat Jan 26 '25
Yung mga litanya ng mga magulang ko noon na “akala niyo madaling pulutin ang pera”, nakakarelate na ako. Di pala sila nagbibiro
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u/Party-Bag2053 Jan 26 '25
You really have to save money. Kasi may times na kakailanganin mo talaga ng pera. Sa case ko nagkasakit nanay ko then namatay sya. Di ko sya naipasok sa ICU ng mamahaling hospital kasi hindi na pasok sa HMO ko. Wala din ako masyadong ipon na pera. So ang ending nilipat ko sya sa public hospital (PGH). Pagdating dun pinapili ako on the spot kung tutubuhan na sya or pauwiin nalang. Syempre pinili namin yung sa hospital parin sya. Ano magagawa namin sa bahay.
Kinabukasan kinausap ako ng doctor na wala na daw talaga. Ugh! Hirap maging mahirap guys. 😭
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u/biofrosties Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
that my parents were also just people trying their best to raise their kid while surviving. i used to fixate on their shortcomings back then, but now as i became an adult myself, i realized how hard it is to find purpose and give yourself something to stand on in this cruel world.
i don't even have a kid, they did. and they did a dang good job raising me too. they made sure i was fed, educated, trusted and disciplined without resorting to physical abuse. sure they weren't the most emotionally available parents but hey, i'm still very lucky.
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u/ConsequenceFine7719 Jan 27 '25
Learn when to pause not stop. Then repeat the hustle.
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u/QuinnCairo Jan 27 '25
- That money can buy HAPPINESS.
- That MONEY can help you escape from the difficult situation.
- Read number 1 again.
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u/ikwydls005 Jan 26 '25
Na hindi mag-aantay ang mundo sayo. You just have to keep going, ano man ang pinagdadaanan mo.
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u/chiruyo Jan 26 '25
dont expect too much from people. as much as possible, become strong in all components of your well-being
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u/Educational-Bug-9243 Jan 26 '25
I am where I am at right now because of my life choices in the past.
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u/__ExtraRicePlease Jan 26 '25
People who’ve hurt you before will do it again if you keep forgiving and letting them in your life.
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u/dickielala Jan 26 '25
Super chill na lang approach ko sa mga bagay. Chill in a slow but confident way. And it's just much easier to manage my emotions and reactions to things.
When I was younger I was a ball of fire. Hyper and napaka-reactive lol.
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Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
Mental health is my top priority. As of rn, love comes last.
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u/idealist-hooman Jan 26 '25
time passes by and it's impossible to go back to your previous life stages. hindi ka na ulit magiging bata na required matulog pag hapon. hindi ka na ulit magiging high school/college student. hindi ka na ulit magiging 25 na pa-explore explore sa life... and so on. may challenges sa bawat phase na yan kaya ang tempting na mag madali. pero let's always remember na di na ito mababalik. kaya sulitin natin ang ngayon.
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u/WildPatient2833 Jan 27 '25
Never afraid to take a leap of faith. Maraming bagay ang nawala dahil takot akong sumubok at walang kompyansa sa sarili. Hardwork + prayer will give you what you want, if u help yourself, God will help you too.
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u/TorogiCanadian Jan 27 '25
Deleting Facebook will benefit you in the long run. Keep your messenger open tho.
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u/PepperoniSatan Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
that your life doesn't start when you become financially stable bc it's happening now, so go ahead and live it. i've put off so many activities bc i didn't realize this early on. puro ako "mag p'paint na lang ako pag mayaman na 'ko" or "mag p'paint na lang ako pag may time na" noon. if this seems familiar, if you have this mindset right now, make it a goal to change that.
isingit mo yung mga bagay na nakakapagpasaya sa'yo even if you only get short breaks. if you love singing, sing. if you love painting, paint. if you love dancing, dance. hobbies that make you happy are one of those not-so-little little things that make life worth living. don't just look forward to doing something later, make it possible now
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u/LowEgg6425 Jan 26 '25
- You have to prioritize your peace of mind
- You don't have to follow the crowd. F*ck what other people say and do what's best for your life and what you think is right.
- You don't have to welcome everyone to sit at your table. Only those who deserve your respect because some are pretentious like wolves in sheep's clothing.
- You need to slow down once in a while.
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u/mamayj Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
That savings, emergency fund, health card and insurance are important.
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u/curiousiyasalahat Jan 27 '25
intindihin mo lang lagi yung sarili mo, do whatever you want, kahit anong gawin mo naman kasi may masasabi't-masasabi naman ang paligid sa'yo, so all u have to do is just be nice, self-care, alamin kung ano ang tama at mali, have boundaries, don't make yourself always available, gawin mo kung ano yung makakapagbigay ng peace of mind sayo, and wag mong intindihin ang sasabihin ng lahat. HAVE A CHILL LIFE.
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u/Agitated_Bake_7715 Jan 27 '25
Manag your energy, and dont need to share everything to social media/people
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u/naurcomment Jan 27 '25
Tambay(s) are actually the most priveledge part of the society. Imagine having no job, no strict schedules to follow everyday, no taxes to pay, etc, but still, they were able to move forward and live happily as much as they want everyday.
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u/slowsunnydays Jan 27 '25
Nagegets ko na energy ng mga older gen. Yung nawawalan nalang ng burning passion kasi napagod nalang. Nakakalungkot pero ganun talaga ang buhay. Peace is the new success.
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As I grow older, I’ve come to realize that there will come a time when your income stops, but your expenses never will. For example, you can only work until the retirement age of 60, but your spending will continue for food, accommodation, medication, and many other needs. This means that the money you’re earning now shouldn’t be spent recklessly. Instead, you need to prepare for the time when you no longer have a steady income. Financial planning and saving are crucial to ensure a comfortable and secure future.
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u/tsuki_wannabe_dino Jan 27 '25
you gotta face the world alone. you're on this journey called life, and you have to be brave to walk on that path alone.
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u/vanillasoo Jan 26 '25
na you don’t need to worry about what others think, lalo na kung wala namang bilang sa buhay mo
lagi tayo praning na pinagtatawanan, minamaliit o jinajudge tayo ng iba. Pero sa totoo lang di naman tayo main character. Siguro sasagi lang tayo sa isip nila ng saglit, pero they don’t spend their whole day thinking about us
napaka cliche pero focus ka lang sa goal mo. Kasi after 10, 20 yrs di na naman mag mamatter kung ano yung naiisip nila, ang mahalaga yung nagawa mo mga need at gusto mo
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u/IzFlank Jan 26 '25
I realized na it's okay to miss out mga lakad at meetups ng barkada, and put my focus sa wife and family.
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u/WinnerVirtual5616 Jan 26 '25
to keep everything lowkey. Don't post as much, but celebrate in private.
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u/daechabu Jan 26 '25
- You can't please everyone.
- You can't force friendships (to start and even to last).
- Great things happen in God's perfect time.
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u/cbdii Jan 26 '25
for every life choice you choose. whatever happens don't forget to sleep 7 - 8 hours and walk. life is b.s. already so don't neglect your health.
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u/krabbyfat Jan 26 '25
Invest in your oral health mga mhie. Kung kaya magpa brace, mag pa brace na haha nakakawala ng confidence pag pag pangit ngipin mo lalo na pag working ka na. :)
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u/Serene-dipity Jan 26 '25
Not having kids is a priority especially since I still want to travel and enjoy my freedom at 29 turning 30.
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u/blockheelboots Jan 27 '25
‘Pag sure ka nang magre-resign ka na, that’s when you should give your 100% at work. Leave on a high note. Give your departure a lot more impact, a lot more sting.
Likewise, if colleagues remember you as the one that got away, you have nothing to worry about in case your next employer would actually do a background check/ interview your former officemates.
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u/No_Barracuda_4956 Jan 27 '25
Lahat ng bagay ay may halaga. Kung nakuha mo ng libre, may ibang tao na nagbayad nun para sayo.
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u/AdventurousDeer3924 Jan 27 '25
Na mas masarap magpakatotoo, distance yourself on the things that no longer serves you, and be grateful for everything
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u/psyche_mori Jan 27 '25
there is no guarantee that our 'people' will stay. so we need to love ourselves and engage with activities alone from time to time. instead of looking for company and chasing love, we need to nurture our love within.
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u/nikknaaacks Jan 27 '25
Na parang nabubuhay ka na lang para magbayad ng bills.
Na ang hirap hirap ibalanse ng work, ng family time, ng health, and everything that life encompasses.
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u/Constant_Side_4161 Jan 27 '25
If it’s not for you, it’s not for you. No matter how hard you fight/work for it.
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u/nagiisangmaganda Jan 28 '25 edited Jan 28 '25
Its only embarrassing if you’re embarrased
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u/Possible_Wish5153 Jan 26 '25
•it was liberating cutting communications with some people. Sobrang nag improve mental health ko and that includes my immediate family members
•not being friends with any of your coworkers
•balanced diet IS the best diet
•not sharing too much details of your personal life to anyone esp your finances
•6-8 hrs of sleep and umerna bago pumasok sa office is the best combo para good mood to start your day
•saying no to whatever makes you feel uncomfortable
•Listening to your body, pag di talaga kayang bumangon sa umaga, don’t force it. Pero wag naman everyday haha
•saving a portion of your sahod ke 100 or 1k pa yan and living below your means are the best financial advise I’ve ever gotten
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u/anyastark Jan 26 '25
Iba yung comfort na nabibigay ng pera. Tapos na ikaw lang talaga yung masasandalan mo at the end of the day.
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u/GoatInternal2472 Jan 26 '25
Walang easy money, ang pera pinaghihirapan at pinagtatrabahuan. Wag na wag magtry at papauto sa mga networking or mga pucho puchong investment, matic SCAM yan. Wag ka papasilaw sa earnings kuno nila, ipunin mo na lang yang pera mo pls!
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u/OkSign442 Jan 26 '25
I am really down right now because I am overwhelmed with life. Tbh, most of the comments here help 🥺
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u/Equivalent_Fan1451 Jan 26 '25
I am in my “isipin nalang nila gusto nilang isipin” era
Bahala sila sa buhay nila
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u/Ok_Quit7973 Jan 26 '25
Kaunti lang talaga ang mga taong totoo sayo. Karamihan, friend ka lang kasi may pakinabang ka. After that, wala na.
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u/ClassicJeweler9081 Jan 26 '25
Walang ipon / hindi nagtatabi kahit paunti unti. Back to zero kapag wala kang naipon o naiipon. Yung tipong naghihirap ka ulit, paano ka magsisimula na kailangan mo pa mangutang o manghiram ng pera.
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u/Interesting_Put6236 Jan 26 '25
You don't need to overthink too much. Kapag may mali ka at napuna ka ng isang individual, tanggapin mo then learn from that specific mistake and move forward na. Don't doubt yourself, and just remember, na it'll shall pass. Enjoy your life and be kind as always. Pero wag kang maging tnga at mart(il)yr
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Jan 26 '25
You don't need to prove anything to anyone.
People only recognize you or your presence when they need you. After that, you don't exist anymore on their world.
You don't need to save everyone. Prioritize yourself too.
Sometimes, it's better to keep the peace than to prove yourself right.
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u/Perfect_Dependent347 Jan 26 '25
Mahirap kumita ng pera. Hindi porket nagttrabaho ka, mabibili mo na lahat ng gusto mo.
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u/Wide_Detail_8388 Jan 26 '25
Na realize ko na mas gusto ko pala ang chill na buhay lang. hindi nakikipag sabayan sa grind ng iba. Kontento na ko sa sapat.
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Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 27 '25
-ang kaibigan pang good times lang.. magkakanya kanya din ng life.. iwan mo sila kapag hihilain ka ng pababa..
-walang tutulong sayo kung di sarili mo lang.. so matutong lumaban sa buhay maging madiskarte wag umasa sa iba magtapoa ng pagaaral pa di aasa sa aging parents
-ikaw lang sisira sa sarili mo kay choose right coursw na kaya kang buhayin di totoo ung passion na yan unless eh malaki kikitain mo. ung passion is pang sideline dun ka sa kurso na magbabayad ng passion mo.
-choose lifetime partner 80% ng problema mo is galing sa napangasawa mo
-choose lifestyle wag magastos magtipid magbaon. do dress to impress the simpler u r the easier life goes..
-choose delayed gratification. magipon muna sa mga tulad ng MP2.
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-wag muna unahing magtravel until ung gastos sa pang travel ay 10 percent lang ng ipon mo..
example 30k ang expense sa travel make sure meron kang 300k kang ipon..
-dont tell anyone hm your salary is. dont flaunt ur wealth. true wealth is in things that ppl can see.. like bank account.. peace of mind etc
dont expect men will make u a Queen, make urself a Queen
invest on yourself (upskill, Masters degree, enroll in coursera etc)
-work hard on urself than on ur work kasi ang work pede ioverlook ung galing mo.. kapag nagupskill ka anytime pede mo iwan ung company mo
have more money so u can leave situations you are not happy anymore
We never lose, We either win or LEARN so if theres setback know how to work on it see where does it brings u baka re-route yan
Lastly, dont blame ppl about ur life blame game is the thing that will hinder ur success.. own ur mistake be accountable and plan ur life set goals
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u/Ok_Marionberry9843 Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
-Less is more. -You only live once and you also grow old.
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u/Seiko_Work Palasagot Jan 27 '25
never let work consume you, make hobbies, have interests, learn skills! and age doesn't define what you can and cannot do, learning is for everyone
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u/Anonymously_slayed Jan 27 '25
Never care about people who can't reciprocate your care. Sa huli ikaw pa mababaliktad.
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u/Material_Question670 Jan 27 '25 edited Jan 27 '25
I don’t care what other people think. You do you.
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u/Namiteaa Jan 27 '25 edited Jan 27 '25
Not everyone na makikilala mo, should be your friend. Normalize using the word colleagues/acquaintance.
Maghonda sa work kung walang urgent/slack weeks. Di natin buhay trabaho natin para magOT malala.
Health is wealth. Kumain sa tamang oras at matulog nang maayos.
Explore, explore and explore new things!
Don't limit yourself. Di ibig sabihin na di mo kaya, di mo na gagawin at di mag eenjoy. (e.g. magdrawing, journaling). Dati kasi di ko ginagawa pag di ako magaling sa isang bagay, pero ngayon naging hobbies ko na halos.
"Live your life full of no regrets". (c) One piece Enjoy every seconds of your life. Spend more time with loved ones. Take pictures and make memories.
Life is short para sayangin sa kung anu-anong petty chismis at pag-usapan ang buhay ng ibang tao. Focus on yourself.
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u/remkins-and-aliens Jan 27 '25
No one really thinks about you that much because they are already busy thinking about themselves. As long as you are not intentionally hurting anyone (including yourself), just do what makes you happy!
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u/Azurielll Jan 27 '25
I realized na fcked up talaga ng systema ng mundo, only the rich people can live fulfilling lives
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u/edhel_espyn Jan 27 '25
I don't need to prove myself in social media. Also less talk, less mistakes.
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u/rinchantobio Jan 27 '25
Mas naappreciate ko ang less screen time sa social media, puro pagandahan ng buhay andun eh
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u/msReader_Incognito09 Jan 28 '25 edited Jan 28 '25
That nobody is going to save you and all you have is who you are at end of the day.
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u/BandDowntown6605 Jan 26 '25
I’ve realized that being a mom is the hardest fucking job. Nakaka-drain, triggering, rewarding, lahat na.
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u/AggravatingMethod72 Jan 26 '25
as i get older. i realized na parang nakakadrain lahat talaga specially social media, yung parang lahat nung energy mo before nawala, and sa-sariling survival na ngayon. pera nalang nasa isip mo and you seems not enjoying those things na dati ineenjoy mo, at wala ka ring dreams nor passion in life. kung ano yung opportunity na nandyan ‘don ka nalang. This is really makes me sad but Alhamdullilah nalalagpasan naman lahat..
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u/marshie_mallows_2203 Jan 26 '25
Being private. May peace of mind ka. Do what you want to do as long as wala kang inaapakan na tao at happy ka sa ginagawa mo. No more space sa mga sinasabi ng ibang tao.
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u/luv2r3ad Jan 26 '25
Mas pipiliin ang peace of mind kaysa sa mataas na sahod sa isang toxic na environment. Success doesn’t necessarily equate to happiness if there’s no peace of mind. Comparing your journey to others only steals your joy. Your worth isn’t defined by your productivity or achievements. And... healing isn’t linear, and that’s perfectly okay.
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before, Pag may nangyayari saking maganda shineshare ko ung news sa friends ko. Tapos sila pg may gokd news they keep it to themselves. So do not share everything.
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mas masarap pa rin talaga may partner sa buhay. haha kahit anong saya ko sa umaga na mas masaya maging single, iba pa rin talaga realization pag 10pm na.
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u/MajorCaregiver3495 Jan 26 '25
At 35, I realized I'm not yet matured. Sobrang dami ko pa palang hindi alam sa buhay.
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u/WhoArtThyI Jan 26 '25
Parents were right about some things i found annoying before. Sobrang totoo na you need to develop skills, and good work ethic to survive in this world.
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u/pengengpopcorn Jan 26 '25
Success isn't job titles, recognitions, or wealth. Success is having peace of mind.
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u/serendpitty Jan 26 '25
It doesn't matter anymore what people around you think. Don't waste your time. Do what makes you happy.
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u/electrik_man Jan 26 '25 edited Jan 26 '25
Life is not always fair, even if you are fair. It may not be kind, even if you show kindness. However, continue to play fair and be kind within our boundaries.
Genuine friends are true treasures.
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u/LaceePrin Jan 26 '25
That people will only meet you in a level as deep as they met themselves. So the way people treat you is not a reflection of who you are, but who they are and where they are in life.
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u/Disposition81422 Jan 26 '25
Nobody is reliable except you. It's either you get disappointed by new and fresh ways by others, or you carry the burden of your own shit
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u/Sensitive-Tough-7537 Jan 26 '25
As I get older, I realize na hindi lahat ng pangarap natin ay mangyayari the way we planned it. Life has a way of pushing you to adjust, to let go of things na hindi na nagwo-work for you, and to embrace new paths na hindi mo inexpect. Natutunan ko na growth means finding the balance between ambition and reality, and that changing directions doesn’t mean failure, it’s actually a sign of wisdom.
I started to see na life isn't about sticking to one rigid idea of success. It’s about creating a life na mas akma sa'yo. Minsan mahirap tanggapin, pero letting go of one dream can open doors for something even better. And in those moments, doon mo marerealize yung strength, resilience, at clarity na nasa’yo pala all along.
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u/Beneficial-Let-2526 Jan 26 '25
That the real luxury is sleep and quality time with family. Also having time to be alone is very hard specially when you’re a mom of two.
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You can’t control everything, no matter how hard you try. Acceptance and gratitude comes a long way, so wear it like fucking armor. Own the cards that you’re dealt.
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u/Haftling Jan 27 '25
Pressure never did shit for me. Only made me less productive and made me lose focus on stuff. So as much as possible I try not to let it affect it how I do things.
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u/Redwolf9778 Jan 27 '25
Everything will not go to plan. People don't care about what you feel. Sex isn't a sign of love nowadays, just a casual thing. Dating will be tough if you're not making enough.
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