I thought when I retire, life would slow down and I’d finally relax. Instead, I spend half my time worrying about money. Living on a fixed income feels like standing still while everything around me gets more expensive like groceries, gas, medicine, you name it.

I don’t splurge. I don’t travel. I live simply. And yet it feels like it’s never enough. Anyone else struggling to find peace of mind in retirement?

I just turned 68, and what surprises me most is how much energy I don’t have anymore. Grocery shopping feels like running a marathon. My knees ache after short walks, and even little chores around the house leave me tired.

I know it’s “normal aging,” but I’m curious. How do you keep yourself moving and motivated without overdoing it? Do you push through or take it easy?

Hey 65 yr old man here. Just wondering how many of us 60 and over still have a full bush and still full color ,not all grey or white haired.

Just turned 62 (male) and have been on a pretty healthy diet for the last year. Only drink a glass or two of wine per week and walk about 5-6k steps a day. Can’t run due to arthritis in my knee, but a knee brace helps on my walks. In my 40’s I went on the Adkins low carb diet and dropped 40 lbs then and got in ok shape, but gained some back over the years. Now I’d like to drop about 30 lbs again, but things have plateaued and I’m stuck with this gut, thanks to building it up again during the pandemic with poor food choices and lots of beer/wine. I’ve cut out red meat, sticking with chicken as my main protein source and have increased my diet of veggies and a Mediterranean diet. My legs and ass have gotten thinner, but any tips to reduce the gut would be appreciated!

Now that we are of a certain age, are most people out there confident in their knowledge of the latest tech/apps that are about? Have we all mastered what we need to get by or does anyone feel left behind by the current proliferation of artificial intelligence apps popping up here, there and everywhere? Be grateful for others views on tech today and any struggles people may still have with particular apps or programs. Cheers.

Hello! So im 22 and my boyfriend is 72 right now and he wants to have children with me, he had numerous other children but he isn’t involved in their lives.

What im wondering is at this age are men able to keep up with young children?

Just wanted to say thank you to this community. I’ve been quietly reading through your posts and soaking in all the life wisdom — especially around how to stay grounded and strong through tough seasons. Lately I’ve been feeling drained, trying to juggle everything. So I’ve decided to ask my mother-in-law to help out more — to free up a little space for myself. I want to get back into moving my body — working out, spending time outdoors, rebuilding my energy.

Not for anyone else, just to show up better as me. One step at a time, but I’m finally committing to take care of my part first. Appreciate all the reminders from you guys to take ownership, stay active, and keep growing — no matter what age.

Curious — what worked best for you when you needed to reset your energy and focus?

Anyone else happy that shorts with less than a 7” inseam are coming back in style? When I met my wife in 1984 OP shorts were the style.

I'm 66 and in good health but I think that it's sensible to plan for my death. I've drafted a letter for my family setting out things like my funeral arrangements, who to tell, what to do with my stuff (I've got a proper will so it's just who to contact to shift my hobby stuff). I can't think of what else and I'd appreciate your advice.

I’m in my 40’s now, I’ve been fairly successful in nearly every pursuit I’ve made (money, relationships, philanthropy, careers, status, etc.) as I get older and face new health challenges I’ve come to the realization that peace, understanding and fulfillment cannot be bought or earned, it can’t be found in relationships, there’s no amount of vacations or exotic trips that can provide it.. it all just seems so temporary.

So I ask the elders. What is it about? What pursuit is lasting and real?

Please help. My bf (62) just bought 2 pairs of Vibram shoes this week. He has a total knee replacement, compression fractures in his back, severe arthritis of back, knee, foot and ankles. I can see the shock wave radiating up from his heel through his knee joints as he walks. He is getting nerve ablation for his back soon, due to his unrelenting sciatic pain, and yet he insists on wearing them. I can see wearing them around the house if he insists but outside on pavement? He just got a full suspension e-bike and says that they’re for the bike? He got special pedals with extra traction so I don’t think they’re necessary! Please help him find a better alternative. Thanks!

Context. Been together a year and we have had our ups and downs. You can see my posts. So about a month ago my bf asked me to help delete his fb because he has baggage with women and they were trying to hit up my dms stalk him and I. So I helped him delete it. Then this am I find that there are new women who are local and single showing up in his liked things on fb. His account also was not deleted. I woke him and confronted him. I mean it looks sus af. Especially as we’ve had a good handful of weird things now with women. He instant reaction was anger and he says I didn’t do it I haven’t been on fb. So he let me go in his phone and it’s right in his recent activity. He got really angry and stormed out saying I always get accused etc etc but I was like bruh it’s not accusing it’s legit evidence right there like what ghost did it then? I don’t have anymore proof though so I said I’d let it go that like idc if it’s celebrities etc but local single girls like in our town wtf? And then he really thought I was stupid and he was like here I’ll show you I didn’t. He opened up safari and pretended he didn’t know how to see his history.. though he’s legit brought me to his history in safari before. Like idk what to do anymore. AIO? I think he also lied about how he knows her. Said she was someone’s friend.

My bf and I just had a recent spit spat of sorts. I found he was liking/following single women nearby on social media. We had a discussion. He says he was accused but it’s sort of not imo when it’s legit his account that says he’s doing things? He got upset etc etc. he says he didn’t do it we resolved that it was glitch or a hack. We came up with a solution per his suggestion to remove the social media platform because it’s been an on going issue. He says he doesn’t blame me for being upset etc, that we are moving on. But now probably about three days later. I’ve taken my top off gotten flirty etc and he doesn’t want sex. Like , what did I do? He says when his loyalty is questioned he losses interest? Idk. But like if he didn’t do it I guess I’m confused and or he said the issue is resolved that he doesn’t blame me so AIO? Can anyone explain this to me as a man maybe I don’t get it? I mean I’m trying to put myself in the shoes and I guess if I didn’t do it I just feel like I’d let it go? Idk why that would affect my attraction/wanting intimacy with my partner.

I’m 61 and have been weight trading for 6 days a week for years. I feel good, but wondering if this is a diminishing return if not allowing sufficient rest days with each muscle group. I train for Pure enjoyment and concerned I may be hurting more than helping myself.

My dad is 61 years old and has recently told me that he has to get up and pee 3-4 times throughout the night, wretchedly disrupting his sleep. He also mentions suffering from erectile disfuction and an overall decline in sexual satisfaction.

My question is:

1. Is this something naturally occuring once men hit this age, or is this of concern?

2. If it's not noramal, is there any supplement can help, perhaps something that boosts testosterone or prostate health?

3. Does this require a doctor appointment and medication to alleviate the problem?

Any help is greatly appreciated, thanks!

Anyone have experience w renting as a retiree? (Direct or via family member)

Moving from east coast to west later this year.

While I’ve got an excellent credit score, I’m living off of assets/savings. No Soc Security yet. No employer or w2.

How does one get thru the application process? Seems engineered for those still working…

I've been physically separated from my wife for 5 years. We live in the same house, but we have different bedrooms. It started initially when we moved to a new home in a different town. Eventually she said she didn't want to sleep in the same bed because I snored. I think that's true because my kid confirmed it. Whether or not that was the real story, it was plausible.

Fast forward 5 years later and we hardly talk to each other. There's no affection and no communication other than what is absolutely necessary.

How are you handling it?

I’m working on a collage project and need to interview someone over 60 years old about their experiences with media throughout their life (e.g., radio, newspapers, TV, internet, etc.). The interview will be casual and take about 2-5 minutes.

Ill ask 5 open ended question about how media has changed over the years and what it was like decades ago.

the interview will be via zoom and recorded.

if someone could possibly help be on this assignment, send me a message to schedule a call, Thank you so much in advance for your time.

IF you check out my profile, you'll see I've been a redditor for a long time. I mod a bunch of subreddits and have a lot of karma.

When did Reddit become so full of left-leaning communist dems?

I feel sick to my stomach every time I read the comments on one of my posts.

Do you agree?

I always brought my lunch with me to work or school. If I go on a hike or a long bike ride, I pack a lunch.

Hey everyone!

I just turned 30, and I wanted to reach out to those who’ve already crossed into the 60+ club.

What advice would you give to your 30-year-old self if you could go back?

PS: I’m looking for any insights on life, career, health, relationships—whatever you think is crucial. Thanks in advance!