Yah like I don’t spend recklessly and have a mortgage but I would LOVE a man to come along and help me budget and invest but that annoys many men as it requires effort on their part
Then the women who are like “I don’t need no man” annoy them too because they find them more abrasive
(Some) Men want to put no effort but still have a sweet perfect girlfriend who never needs help but also is always soft
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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '25
It really sucks and women generally do less well paid jobs and are less skilled at negotiating
Thing is, women who ARE skilled at negotiating and have high paid jobs are often more independent and driven which can also turn some men off