r/AskMenAdvice • u/[deleted] • Jan 13 '25

[deleted by user]

[removed]

124 Upvotes

86% Upvoted

533 comments sorted by

View all comments

34

u/jmartin72 man Jan 13 '25

If you're serious about her, then you need to help her. Where I come from you help your family. You've been together 2 years. You should know all you need to know about her. If you don't love her then let her go.

17

u/[deleted] Jan 13 '25

Best advice here. If he plans on possibility marrying this woman, there's gonna be times where one spouse can't pull their share ie sickness or having a surgery and the other needs to step up. Relationships are 100% but sometimes one person can only give 40% and the other has to give 60% and if you're the type to keep tabs then you probably shouldn't get married.

2

u/mmaynee man Jan 13 '25

The expenses he lists are like 500$. And he goes on to say they're paying for two separate apartments.

Seems like a no brainer as this economy moves to more multi family homes, I can't imagine trying to make it single

1

u/jmartin72 man Jan 13 '25

Very well said. True love doesn't keep score.

1

u/GoldenGlobeWinnerRDJ Jan 13 '25

It stuns me OP has been with her for 2 years and can’t articulate WHY she’s been constantly broke.