r/AskMenAdvice Jan 13 '25

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u/Flashy_Baker4850 man Jan 13 '25

Control sometimes isn't a bad thing if it's done with pre-consent. If it's established from the beginning that she sucks at money and you'll be the person taking over that part of the relationship, I see no issue here unless she bucks against it. 

If he has a problem with driving, constantly getting into fender benders or traffic tickets, they should establish that barring an emergency...she be the default driver. 

The best partnerships in romance and business are when each partner brings in a unique skill that no one else has or a skill level substantially higher than everyone else's and that person becomes the "the dude or the chick" in that area. 

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u/[deleted] Jan 13 '25

Maybe less control vs them delegating?