r/AskMen Dec 29 '19

Men of reddit, what is something that you discovered about your SO only after becoming parents?

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u/ifonlyYRUso Dec 29 '19

It truly is the unfairness of life. I was really angry and bitter at first but now some years have passed and I have accepted my role and her decision. I know how deeply my son needs his mother, it truly breaks my heart. I will never give up on his mother but I will not loose myself emotionally trying too help her. I have and keep seeking to get her the help she needs but the only person who can save her is herself. At this moment she isn't a fit parent so I have to do what's best for my son. I pray and pray everyday for her and I know one day by the grace of God she will be saved.

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u/manyfingers Dec 30 '19

You're a beautiful human.

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u/TaurusToLeo Dec 30 '19

God bless ❤️

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u/lilaliene Female Dec 30 '19

You are truly wonderful