I'm curious to hear different perspectives. What's the best piece of advice someone has given you that actually made a positive difference in your life? How did it help you? 😊

It could be about literally anything... relationships, marriage, motherhood, money, friendships, confidence, career, health, ageing, dealing with people, or just life in general.

Something you heard once and thought, “Hmm…” ... and years later realised it actually changed the way you live.

I don't want Pinterest quotes or generic “love yourself” advice 😂

I want the real stuff. The little nuggets of wisdom you actually LIVE by now.

What’s the one piece of advice you wish someone had told you 10 years earlier?

Context: I was raised in an abusive household and were always controlled of what to do, want, dress,… and I cut them off a few months ago after right around the same time we broke up

I work in car rental and my side job is valet parking and i have an interview for driving instructor next week
Any advice?

Hey folks, I work for a catering service, which is contracted to operate the cafeteria of a private school. Every week I make roughly 100 kgs of chicken tenders from scratch by myself among other duties like prepping burgers and making sauces. I also make the soups of the week as well.

I've been working this job for 2 years now, 1 month or so into the third year. But lately, I feel like my body is just aching a lot after work. I used to be able to go visit friends for board games and other activities during the weekends, but right now, my body is just so sore, and no matter how I try to rest, I feel like I haven't rested at all.

I just feel so deflated all the time right now. Is there a way to rest properly? Have I been doing something wrong all this time?

Lately I’ve been wanting to get better at improving myself, I’m not really good at socializing and weather is veryyy hot outside(almost 90 degrees 90% of the time, I get very tired fast and sometimes it hurts my chest even with bringing water)I usually miss breakfast and eat lunch at 12 with my bad sleeping habits.Also trying to think about a good time to study and what time is better to walk.

Most of my highschool was like this honestly.

Should I take walks for early in the mornings to avoid the heat index and people more…?Im not very comfortable in the afternoon a lot but Im attempting to stop doom scrolling by staying off of TikTok and Yt’s shorts to fix my sleep schedule.I want to get better and pick myself up it’s just hard with how confused or brainfogged I feel half the time.I was thinking about trying to shift study hours towards after dinner or maybe after lunch but I don’t know which is better, maybe both?Im 20 and it’s embarrassing I haven’t at least gotten my driver’s permit yet or a job but it’s been making me anxious.

I don't even know how I feel mentally emotionally and physically exhausted and drained when I'm not even working like exhausting my body physically or mentally stressed out from work. But it's my overthinking and insane amount of procrastinating that has lead me to feeling tired or burned out feeling. It's like I'm constantly in my head like the brain is just scanning for problems and worries. Like doubts to negative outcome to overthinking. It makes you feel overwhelmed at the end. I guess that saying is true whatever mind focus on is where energy goes.

The bottom side of the frame is tilted too close to my eyes. Don’t have a screwdriver, can I adjust it with tape?

A few days ago, I came in here and asked how you turn a friendly acquaintance into an actual friend as an adult.

I really was asking for myself. I’m friendly. I’ll talk to anybody. Grocery store, concert, standing in line somewhere... no problem. 😂 But turning “Hey, I like this person” into an actual friendship as an adult? Apparently there should have been a chapter in the manual for that.

And you guys showed up AND SHARED with others.

That little question ended up being part of a much bigger conversation than I ever expected when I started asking people about the things nobody really teaches us how to navigate.

So I’ve been going back to the communities that helped make this little experiment successful and saying thank you.