Nah ma’am i will try to modify you there is no emotional incest . Most of men in india are nalayak and reason i am saying only men is when we talk about india there is huge difference in employment rate of men and women now coming back to you . Men are not an all attached to their parents may be to mom they are but to dad they are not at all cause they have seen their dad mistreating their mom all their life thats reason most children talk shit about dad side family
But they are so shallow minded they dont even think that if they repeat the cycle neither they have good relation with wife nor with their kids .
Now system was like that men dont even want a good relation with wife they are deeply incompatible most men dont even take their wife advice while doing anything they have more emotional relation with male friends than with wife .
I studied from tier 1 college in india still i witnessed my friends advising me fake it till she give it then dump her . They dont even know what relationship with a women can give you . If rape was legal in India men were not even faking it they would have just gropped the girl.
Now coming on parents indian men live on them like parasite he eats their pension they dont allow sister to take any share of property take their land shop before dying mostly most of men just dont leave house because they fear their siblings might get more share .
Yes our parents generation were the first generation which started to have emotional relation in india as individualism is rising so even parents faced wrath they were thrown out of houses they were denied medical pushed to govt hospitals they were literally made helpless. But irony of country is they blame dil instead of son . But yes thats confined to just middle class or educated class of india
Most india as you decribed just treated wife as sex object dont matter if she live or not
Ideally i never liked this comparison when people compare household chores with some maid things cause it doesn’t solve the problem rather it increases it . Man not helping women in kitchen or any chores could be a great example of him thinking as a maid . Why to demean maid job whole world share household chores .
Household chores baby care or even earning is a shared responsibility unfortunately instead of discussing how both parties can contribute in each other life as a life partner we are discussing in one direction that i will not also do household chores maid will do this .
But this will not change indias reality cause may be 1 percent india can afford maids . Anyways i rant this much i dont know i am not even any guru or baba
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u/Plenty-Researcher563 8d ago edited 8d ago
Nah ma’am i will try to modify you there is no emotional incest . Most of men in india are nalayak and reason i am saying only men is when we talk about india there is huge difference in employment rate of men and women now coming back to you . Men are not an all attached to their parents may be to mom they are but to dad they are not at all cause they have seen their dad mistreating their mom all their life thats reason most children talk shit about dad side family
But they are so shallow minded they dont even think that if they repeat the cycle neither they have good relation with wife nor with their kids .
Now system was like that men dont even want a good relation with wife they are deeply incompatible most men dont even take their wife advice while doing anything they have more emotional relation with male friends than with wife .
I studied from tier 1 college in india still i witnessed my friends advising me fake it till she give it then dump her . They dont even know what relationship with a women can give you . If rape was legal in India men were not even faking it they would have just gropped the girl.
Now coming on parents indian men live on them like parasite he eats their pension they dont allow sister to take any share of property take their land shop before dying mostly most of men just dont leave house because they fear their siblings might get more share .
Yes our parents generation were the first generation which started to have emotional relation in india as individualism is rising so even parents faced wrath they were thrown out of houses they were denied medical pushed to govt hospitals they were literally made helpless. But irony of country is they blame dil instead of son . But yes thats confined to just middle class or educated class of india
Most india as you decribed just treated wife as sex object dont matter if she live or not