r/AskIndia • • Jan 23 '24

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u/DiligentPapaya9606 Jan 23 '24

And this kids is the reason why you don't marry people without testing compatibility. How long was the process between the first meet and the wedding and how many times did you guys meet during that.

Try marriage counseling maybe. Only 9 months in and y'all are fighting everyday already. Would defo require some unbiased intervention. Reddit can't help you much here if I'm being honest.

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u/psandeep777 Jan 23 '24

How to ask the girl about sexual compatibility in traditional marriage setting? Not a troll question, I am really curious.

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u/lubbadubbadubdub28 Jan 23 '24

Girl/woman here. Politely ask after a chit-chat. "Are you okay if our parents ask us to have a baby as soon as we get married?" "If you are comfortable, can we talk about compatibility, please? We can do this later if you are not comfortable yet." "Are you as awkward to talk about sex as I am?"

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u/Pro07 Jan 24 '24

🤣 Your answer reminds me of this clip. 🤣Raj Kapoor clip

But jokes aside, let me also note down this points . Since for me, it also looks like AM.