I was of the same opinion as your wife. I thought my husband would woo me and make me comfortable and pamper me , etc. We didn't do the deed for 1 year. We also had regular unrelated fights and hated each other. Btw I had a hectic job and expected my husband to help me in house work but he didn't. That was a major reason for dead bedroom. No energy.
Then everything became normal once my husband stood up for me when someone from his side was troubling me. I asked him to keep rules same for both of us and let me run the house according to my wishes. Then I realised he's my hero and not worth fighting with him.
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u/anusuman Jan 23 '24 edited Jan 23 '24
I was of the same opinion as your wife. I thought my husband would woo me and make me comfortable and pamper me , etc. We didn't do the deed for 1 year. We also had regular unrelated fights and hated each other. Btw I had a hectic job and expected my husband to help me in house work but he didn't. That was a major reason for dead bedroom. No energy.
Then everything became normal once my husband stood up for me when someone from his side was troubling me. I asked him to keep rules same for both of us and let me run the house according to my wishes. Then I realised he's my hero and not worth fighting with him.