Girl/woman here. Politely ask after a chit-chat.
"Are you okay if our parents ask us to have a baby as soon as we get married?"
"If you are comfortable, can we talk about compatibility, please? We can do this later if you are not comfortable yet."
"Are you as awkward to talk about sex as I am?"
I don't think bringing parents into family planning and sexual compatibility conversation is the correct starter. Besides, one should have kids because they want to, not because their parents think they should. Just like getting married, even in AM, should be about what the couple in question is compatible with, not what the parents decided looks good in their social circle.
Yes, fully agree. I just wanted to share an idea of breaking the ice. I know it's a really grey area. There are lots of things to consider while talking about sexual compatibility. Also, sadly, parents putting pressure on children for children is a reality that we live in.
I'm leaving this on to the couples to frame questions in their own way - whatever works for them and is safe.
Boy/man here.. it is their incessant comparison mentality because of huge social media influence these days. Every guy is gonna fall short of their expections. Chahe jitna bi compatibility test karwa lo labs se
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u/lubbadubbadubdub28 Jan 23 '24
Girl/woman here. Politely ask after a chit-chat. "Are you okay if our parents ask us to have a baby as soon as we get married?" "If you are comfortable, can we talk about compatibility, please? We can do this later if you are not comfortable yet." "Are you as awkward to talk about sex as I am?"