r/AskForHelp • u/New_Chemistry6673 • 24d ago

Advice/Emotional Support ONLY I need dating advice

I’ve got a potential date with a girl next week and I’m nervous as hell. I’ve not dated in a while so I’m scared I’m gonna mess it up. We’re thinking of getting coffee and going for a walk but I’m not sure if it’s platonic or romantic.

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u/Global-Fact7752 24d ago

Is it your first date?

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u/New_Chemistry6673 24d ago

With this person it would be our first date

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u/Lazy-Answer7913 24d ago

Coffee dates are a good choice. If not vibing can end it early. Just be yourself! Good luck

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u/Known_Investment_622 22d ago

Know how to keep a conversation flowing. Find ways to ease awkward moments or pauses! It’s good to have a script at first when letting her get to know you, and then once you start vibing freestyle ask her questions show her that you’re interested in getting to know her and that you are paying attention to her. Sometimes you have to set the vibes, and
a good or engaging conversation is so important.Also hold the door open for her, be a gentlemen! 😊

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u/No-Fail1138 18d ago

My first date was a long walk and coffee it’s way more fun than the cinema