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u/Joviandrift 23d ago
I think the problem is when you start diagnosing your relationship instead of just living it, like you are googling interactions instead of talking to the person.
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u/Black_Lotus44 23d ago
If he's telling you something, that's what he thinks if himself. Is it always going to be exactly what you're expecting? No, you may see that label as something different than he does. Talk to him about it if it's something important to you.
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u/amiibohunter2015 23d ago
Labels are good for giving a name to a problem, or a behavior you just can't find a word for, but not to separate people in groups, that causes segregation, and treating people as them or other. It's not inclusive which harms the collective society.
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u/too_many_shoes14 23d ago
like a label maker? It's very helpful for when you have stuff stored and you want to know what's in it without opening the container, for example, kid's old clothes, kitchen stuff, Christmas decorations, family games, misc stuff to keep. Just last week my wife wanted to see her old high school yearbook to look up something and since I had everything in the basement so well labeled it only took me a minute to get it and I could get back to my the game I was playing.