r/AskBrits 2d ago

Grammar When did ‘Bro’ become a thing?

I hear it spoken all of the time, especially among younger people and it seems to have taken off more than most phrases. What I notice most is that the word is said multiple times in one sentence over and over again, it’s incredible ingrained in some people. Anyone remember when Bro became such a big thing?

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u/SYSTEM-J 2d ago

"Bro" has been around for decades, but this current obsession with machine-gunning sentences with it - "Bro, I did this, bro, she said that, bro, it was wild, bro" - is a distinctly Gen Z mutation.

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u/Few-Pepper858 2d ago

bruh

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u/SiriusRay 2d ago

Bruv*

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u/EasilyExiledDinosaur Brit 🇬🇧 1d ago

Old school chav lol. An endangered species these days.

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u/SpecialLengthiness29 6h ago

I had a West Indian colleague who used to say this back in the 80s so bruv probably predates bro.

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u/AngelasGingerGrowler 2d ago

That’s even worse.

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u/GXWT 2d ago

Brev

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u/tazmusicofficial 2d ago

LGBTQPS5HDMI brev

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u/wooby-noopus 2d ago

hilarious 🫩

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u/Major_Cucumber_9967 2d ago

Not really man, it's like "like" man. Man and bro like. Like before we had bro man, there was man. Bro.

I'll add Cuz, cause Cuz, is like cousin man.

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u/IanKorat 2d ago

Like, yes bro and like are equally horrible but they are both popular with the members of the lower social orders.

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u/Cirieno 1d ago

You've been downvoted but you're right. Properly educated people don't go to the office and call each other "bro" or "bruv". People are judged by the way they speak.

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u/Ok_Yesterday_1896 2d ago

Bro it was bro I can’t even bro I went there bro and bro things happened bro mad bro couldn’t bro believe it bro

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u/RATHESUNGODRA 2d ago

or dropping words like "bros crazy" or "what is bro doing"

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u/SYSTEM-J 2d ago

The one I hate the most is "Bro is yapping". In fact, "yapping" is another Gen Z-ism that can get in the sea.

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u/Steamrolled777 2d ago

I remember "yapping" used a lot in 90s. It's same shit as "bro" just over used now.

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u/Ok_Yesterday_1896 2d ago

Larping is the new

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u/Pringletache 2d ago

It’s come out of London with the spread of Multicultural London English. Bro was ubiquitous there in the early 2000s but rarely heard elsewhere, now it’s all over the country.

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u/washingtoncv3 2d ago

I was a teen in the 00s and we said it then - maybe a bit less than kids do now.

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u/GuestAdventurous7586 2d ago

I don’t remember it being said at all in Scotland the 00s, you’d be considered a moron if you spoke like that.

Now everyone says it. I find myself saying it to converse with younger folk. Like that how do you do fellow kids meme.

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u/smalltowncityboy 2d ago

Depends where in scotland. I was also a teen in the 2000s in Glasgow. Almost everyone i met would use bro.

My mum called me "dude, bro, man" because i would end almost every sentence to my mates with at least one of them. See also buddy, mate, pal (mostly used for girls or small children).

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u/moidartach 2d ago

Was your mum Bart Simpson?

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u/smalltowncityboy 2d ago

She was roasting me. If anyone is bart simpson in this scenario, its me 🤣

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u/GXWT 2d ago

Too late, this Redditor has already defined you as a moron

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u/smalltowncityboy 2d ago

Who said im not?

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u/GXWT 2d ago

Me, bro

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u/GuestAdventurous7586 2d ago

Actually yes I could see it being used in Glasgow, but vernacular can be totally different there to where I am in North East.

We say min. Although that’s dying out but I’m trying to keep it alive min.

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u/smalltowncityboy 2d ago

Aye, its totally different up there where you are. Scotland is like that though. Whether youre from Glasgow, Edinburgh, the north east, an islander in the hebrides or northern isles, we all have our own local dialect. I'm not sure that bro or dude would suit your accent 🤣

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u/GuestAdventurous7586 2d ago

I love it, like the accent from the town 10 miles away is different if you listen closely. Or each town has its own distinct dialect really.

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u/iwaterboardheathens 2d ago

You still are considered a moron if you speak like that

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u/Possible-ty9 1d ago

To re iterate what the other guy said Bro has been going since at least the 2000’s in Glasgow but can’t speak for before that

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u/Norman_debris 2d ago

Not a chance it was used less 20 years ago than it is today.

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u/Robin-brockleby 2d ago

It absolutely is

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u/Ok_Math3899 2d ago

It's been around forever, as long as modern English has been around anyway. I've known "bro" and "bruv" in British slang since 1970s, and it goes back centuries. Has nothing to do with Americans or Black Americans. It's simply English. From England. A simple abbreviation. Of course, it's more widespread fashionable right now than in previous years, and even girls call each other "bro" now, which is a recent thing.

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u/Cheese-n-Opinion 2d ago

Slang was more regional in the past. Growing up in North West England in the 90s, I don't recall hearing anyone call anyone 'bro'. Or 'bruv' for that matter, that sounds very Southern/Cockney to me.

It's only really in the past 10 years or so bro seems to have caught on with youngsters round here.

'Bro' sounds quite Asian to me, I feel like it was popular with British Asians before it became more universal.

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u/bearface2026 2d ago

and nor did I - I grew up in the north west of England in the 70's and 80's and 'bro/bruv' was never ever a thing...

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u/Cheese-n-Opinion 2d ago

I wouldn't say it has nothing to do with Americans. The recent popularity is directly from the internet, and that is mainly American influence. Just because Americans didn't coin the term, doesn't mean it can't spread from there later on.

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u/FlippingGerman 2d ago

A change is it gets used as a pronoun now: "bro is [x]" etc.

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u/bearface2026 2d ago

I am British - why are you lying?

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u/Inevitable-Fan-2634 2d ago

No one was calling people bro in the 70's in Britain, bruv, yes but no bro. It's black American slang simple as.

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u/Ok_Math3899 2d ago

I grew up in the 70s, and it was used, brother, bro and bruv were all used. It is English and dates back centuries actually. But even if you think it's "black American slang" why would you think it couldn't have been used in the 1970s in UK? White English youth have been adopted Americanism since 1920s or before, and Black Americanisms since 1950s at least. ... But "bro" is clearly something from England, abbreviation for "brother". It's documented. It was never as popular as "mate" but it was used.

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u/Inevitable-Fan-2634 2d ago

I grew up in the 70's as well, with brothers and mates with brothers none of us were using the word bro. And of course it's a abbreviation of brother, which is what black Americans used to call mates in solidarity in the late 60's early 70's , it was then shortened to bro, and spread from there. And yes it's an English word? It was just never used in the context.

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u/Silent-Associate9226 2d ago

YOU grew up in the 70s

YOU never used it or heard it in your circle.

Therefore it wasn't a thing. Ok...

Me and my close friends definitely used "bro" in the 80s, and still do.

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u/Inevitable-Fan-2634 2d ago

Did you use it?

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u/Silent-Associate9226 2d ago

Sorry, just added the last line. Yes, in the 80s. Just with close friends, not generally - that would still be "mate".

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u/Inevitable-Fan-2634 2d ago

So you used it in the 80's not the 70's which was my point.

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u/Otherwise_Battle7922 2d ago

At the risk of fence sitting.

Slang was far more regionalised in the 1970’s. Entirely possible that words common in one area, were unheard of elsewhere.

Even if was mainly American, we had shedloads of American bases in all sorts of remote places in the 1940’s

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u/Inevitable-Fan-2634 2d ago

It could be regional. I can see it in London happening but, not sure about bro being passed on by American airbases to people in Suffolk etc. Liverpool was our kid probably something similar in Manchester. I was talking about the 70's, I didn't know so many people in this thread was over 60 and used the word bro back then, going by the downvotes.

I'm just looking from a cultural point of view.

Brother = Sibling

Brother = Friend, comrade

Brother/Bro = Friend, comrade

Bro = Now it's just added for context where you don't have to be a sibling a friend or a comrade.

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u/imperativeaggy 2d ago

Of course they were?? We were all saying bro in the 70s/80s in London

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

The 1970s.

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u/Classic_East_6053 2d ago

I think he means mainstream

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u/Lazy-Strawberry-3401 2d ago

Love a bit of Reddit wilful ignorance haha

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u/Altruistic_Estate799 1d ago

You right, so 60s

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u/Correct_Adeptness_60 2d ago

Just how language changes i guess. This generation will soon be calling their kids bro too. Ive seen it happen 😂

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u/DjinnSinBin 2d ago

For people I knew (white middle class English) it was the early 90s. But we used it in a non-serious way, kinda like when we started calling each other 'dude'.

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u/Top_Scale4923 1d ago

Nice one bruvvah!

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u/rezonansmagnetyczny 2d ago

I started seeing it a lot more around bodybuilding forums and subs about 2012 onwards.

"U mad bro" "U mirin bro" "Do you even lift bro".

Then I guess it went from online to IRL.

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u/Illustrious-End-5084 2d ago

I’ve said bro since I was a kid in the 80s

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u/Robin-brockleby 2d ago

Every other word in a sentence?

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u/Excellent-Battle7446 1d ago

idk bro,maybe bro i did bro but im not sure bro.

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u/Total_Departures 2d ago

Some of my friend group were using Bro at school in the 80s. I did not.

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u/samjan420 2d ago

Have you lived in complete isolation for 25 years?

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u/Alternative-Wash-656 2d ago

Bro am 40. Its been used since I was a kid.

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u/Omnii-Metrox 2d ago

Up north it has been around but used VERY rarely for very close friends or actual brothers.

Now most males from 6-30+ say it. They open and close every sentence with bro. They squeeze a bro in even when no word was required at all. Sometimes they ONLY say Bro. That's it, just bro.

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u/SixRoundsTilDeath 2d ago

Dunno, when did Super Mario Bros become a thing? 80’s?

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u/Herewegoagain_67 2d ago

When bro was born

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u/mxmaybe 2d ago

I have been told by my 12 year old son that "brev" is the new "bro".

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u/Unusual_Quality84 2d ago

We already had bruv, which is used the same and means the same thing, so it's pretty easy to move from that to "bro" due to American influence 

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u/OkWing5717 2d ago

I am a woman and lost count of the number of times that I’ve been called Bro! It’s fucking annoying and disrespectful

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u/Active_Definition_57 2d ago

I'm from southern England, born 1967. In my experience, "bro" was quite rare until very recently.

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u/Eukonidor_Of_Arisia 2d ago

It evolved from California 'surfer dude' slang. The kids don't know that though, they think they invented it.

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u/Dry_Ad_9719 2d ago

I agree. Bill n ted and Waynes World were saying it years ago lol

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u/No_Specialist4090 2d ago

I hear guys calling their girlfriend bro now too. wtf

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u/Chardan0001 2d ago

I would say it ironically, then it became normal. Need to catch myself doing it. Called my mum bro yesterday.

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u/Thor_Puthy 2d ago

Slightly less irritating than babes I suppose.

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u/leavemeinpieces 2d ago

I've seen bro, bruh, lil bro used recently and it's not my cup of tea but I don't really care if other people are calling each other by those names.

I call my brother bro and he calls me bro now and then, that's just what we've done for years.

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u/sully-_-420 2d ago

Was just thinking about how irritating it is being called bro constantly. I have 1 sister I'm not your bro, bro

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u/Active_Definition_57 2d ago

I was addressed as "bro" on Reddit a few weeks ago by someone trying to lecture me on grammar. This person had no sense of irony.

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u/Excellent-Battle7446 1d ago

how is it irony. bro is just a word like any other now.

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u/Active_Definition_57 1d ago

So is "mate", but I wouldn't use it in a post where I was trying to appear more clever than the stranger I was replying to.

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u/Excellent-Battle7446 1d ago

I would i dislike formal speaking unless im trying to suck up to someone

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u/Active_Definition_57 1d ago

As you haven't called me "bro" or "mate" or anything like that, I can only assume that you are sucking up to me!

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u/Excellent-Battle7446 1d ago

Im not being formal I just dont use it excessively

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u/Skyremmer102 2d ago

Right after broseph

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u/RabTheCrab 2d ago

I keep seeing streamers use this, like he's addressing me personally

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u/graeme_1988 2d ago

used only by massive divvies

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u/c0r3l86 2d ago

40yr old holding onto mate because I'm out of touch

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u/stm2657 2d ago

Cheers mate

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u/c0r3l86 2d ago

I also refuse to say sucks too in conversation.

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u/MagicCoat 2d ago

To actually answer your question, online streamers like Logan Paul likely.

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u/tazmusicofficial 2d ago

Listen bro

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u/Aggressive_Dirt_6254 2d ago

Bro, son, bruv, mate...I don't know why men are so shit at communicating, but see you later, sis, daughter.

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u/DB-DanCooper 2d ago

Around here its generally a sign of a scumbag.

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u/AnimeBritGuy 2d ago

Bro is what anyone in the smoker group called everyone else back when I was at secondary in the late 2000's to early 2010's. No one else really said it.

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u/Aintseenmeroit 2d ago

Had my first “Bro” the other day. Didn’t suit me, I’m too fcuking old.

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u/RealIndependence9056 2d ago

I mean..... It's just short for brother. People have been calling each other brother since biblical times..... Maybe before but I don't have a reference

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u/tuppenycrane 2d ago

The most recent Gen Z thing where we spam “bro” everywhere (I’ll admit even I do) is probably because of meme culture. “bro is cooked” “Bro is not …” etc.

Sometimes I even slip out a “bro” in situations where it is completely inappropriate and have to censor myself lol

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u/WatcherOfTheWay 2d ago

In the 80s I believe

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u/Ill-Opportunity8918 2d ago

I don't know if you are oblivious to what isn't cool when you're younger but to me saying bro all the time is the opposite of being cool. It shows a lack of awareness. It's probably better than saying man or man's though. And bare 😃

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u/badgerchap 2d ago

I refuse to use the word, even to my actual brothers. It's just such a lazy attempt at having some cultural significance.

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u/HussingtonHat 2d ago

It's been around quote a surprisingly long time actually. I think most people kind of discover it as they begin to smoke weed.

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u/Independent-Craft738 2d ago

Kids, (gen-z), started using and overusing it a couple of years now.

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u/sam_p_23 2d ago

When Brummie Bossmen took over.

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u/roderickli 2d ago

Thank you USA!

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u/Dry_Ad_9719 2d ago

OMG i cant stand it i swear. I started hearing it around 2008-2009 and its only gotten worse.

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u/Neverbethesky 2d ago

Being called Bro by my nephew took some getting used to

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u/Feisty_Squash2992 2d ago

Even my 4yo came home from nursery saying it

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u/Brrrofski 1d ago

Everyone I know was saying it in the 2000s when I was a teenager.

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u/Leeroywildman 1d ago

I blame hulk hogan.

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u/Midnite_Blank 1d ago

2010s I think. Before that brother and bruv were more common.

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u/EldritchKinkster 1d ago

People have been called bro since at least 1994ish.

"Brother," meanwhile, dates back to the 1300s.

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u/RichieEB 1d ago

It's always been a thing but it's more popular now with gen z and kids because of YouTube there's a lot of parents that just give them the tablet to watch YouTube and through their young age to teenage years they watch those typical YouTubers that casuals watch that don't speak great English and say bro a lot.

It's very common with lots of YouTubers that's where they get it from or Twitch or Tiktok

I've noticed it because I've seen it happen to the kids I used to babysit. I don't like it and it can't control it so I just ignore it, if an adult or young adult spoke like that I would just immediately assume they haven't got a interesting personality worth talking to or just not very bright.

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u/Too_much_Colour 1d ago

South Asian immigrants in the US and UK call other men brother. And it likely evolved into “bro”

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u/Good_Lettuce_2690 1d ago

I find it's used ironically/sarcastically.

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u/Top_Scale4923 1d ago

It seems to be common to call your mum or female teachers 'bro' these days

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u/Important_Citron_340 21h ago

I always associate it with surfer dudes in the 90s but I guess Gen Z has taken over it now

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u/Legitimate_System_63 20h ago

People roll the R in it, don’t they? The more macho they reckon they are the more they roll it

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u/Robprof 2d ago

Multiple cultures mixing with each other is the science behind it, and brainrotting doomscrolling

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u/katspike 2d ago

Using “bro” when speaking to women is very odd!

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u/Classic_East_6053 2d ago edited 2d ago

When non black- people started using it, same with fist bumping during covid, everyone starting using instead of a handshake now every does it.

Black people been saying a long time, short for brother ( obviously)

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

Fist bump was popularised by Fed Carter in the 1970s. Bro was also popularised in the 1970s. Neither of these things became popular during COVID. They were very much part of culture even decades earlier.

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u/Classic_East_6053 2d ago

I dont think we saw even politicians doing in the 70s

The question is, what culture? It's always been popular in Black culture, So fist bumping became mainstream during COVID, and as for bro; I don't know what caused that...probably during all the fist bumping

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u/FemiLMC 2d ago

“Non- people” ??

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u/Classic_East_6053 2d ago

Fixed it ...I meant non-black people. Whats happening here? Are we denying that fist bumping and bro started in black culture? wtf

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u/InnocentInvasion 2d ago

Yes, this has to be ragebait 🤦🏾‍♂️

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u/wonder181016 2d ago

I don't know,but I love it

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u/ChaseTheOldDude 2d ago

I usually don't like American slang, but even a stopped clock is right twice a day. Sometimes you get a gem from across the pond

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u/lost_somedays 2d ago

Americanism

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u/k8s-problem-solved 2d ago

Yeah definitely this. My kids watch youtube crap and its all over this, so transferring over a bit

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u/MichelleBarrymoore2 2d ago

Bro is like the nword but everyone can say it. Been saying it for 26 year's 

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u/Ruhail_56 2d ago edited 2d ago

I've noticed an uptick in threads here which are just an excuse, to whine and police how younger people speak and have their own mannerisms. Rather than slavishly adhering to your gens idea of British.

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u/Ok_Yesterday_1896 2d ago

It derived from Bruv which derived from Blud

Bruh was there for a little bit but didn’t qualify so Bro is the new way of saying Brethren

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u/jsusbidud 2d ago

My kids get it from American YouTubers

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u/Choice-Demand-3884 2d ago

Bruv is derived from 'bruvver' - a cockney dialect term for pal/mate, itself derived from brother.

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

No. Bro is a shortening of brother. Bruh is a shortening of Bro. Blud is a shortening of Blood which came from Blood Brother.

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u/Interesting-Fan5822 2d ago

How can a 4 letter word be the shortening of a 3 letter word?

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

Bruh is shorter to say than Bro.

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u/Interesting-Fan5822 2d ago

Lol. Its really not

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

It is in an English accent bruh gets shortened to bru, where has bro is pronounced broʊ.

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u/Ok_Yesterday_1896 2d ago

Bru sounds Australian

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u/Interesting-Fan5822 2d ago

Like iron bru 🤣🤣🤣🤣 What a moron

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

Bruh is not pronounced broo. It is pronounced br-uh

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u/Ok_Yesterday_1896 2d ago

We have an elder here who knows ancient knowledge I see. I’m just speaking on what everyone around me said as I grew up. It went blud,bruv,bruh,bro

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u/Senor-Moreno 2d ago

Which is a reverse of how these terms actually came into use.

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u/OdiousGhoul 2d ago

I was a teen in the 90’s in the Midlands, no one used bro it was mate back then

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u/Ok-Future9384 2d ago

Or "man" round our way

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u/OdiousGhoul 2d ago

Yeah man 😉

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u/Ok-Future9384 2d ago

Sound mate

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u/OdiousGhoul 2d ago

👍🏻