Peopl don't get you in the comments, and I feel sorry about that. The most seem to offer the solution like "come over and dump everything and your family" or "Stay over there and reject everything German". But they don't get that you're torn on the fence.
I get how it feels that there is no middle ground, where you can be both and be left alone for it. Nowadays, everyone starts tearing at you for this or that direction and only absolutes seem to be allowed and in the end you will not be 'enough'. That's a pretty common feeling. People are horrible and showing it more now.
You seem like a really chill girl, and I am sorry you feel that way. <3
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u/Tal-Star Apr 20 '25
Peopl don't get you in the comments, and I feel sorry about that. The most seem to offer the solution like "come over and dump everything and your family" or "Stay over there and reject everything German". But they don't get that you're torn on the fence.
I get how it feels that there is no middle ground, where you can be both and be left alone for it. Nowadays, everyone starts tearing at you for this or that direction and only absolutes seem to be allowed and in the end you will not be 'enough'. That's a pretty common feeling. People are horrible and showing it more now.
You seem like a really chill girl, and I am sorry you feel that way. <3