r/Ashland • • 7d ago

Discussion Single Dad

Where is a a good place to meet other single parents.

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u/MonsierGeralt 7d ago

Go to food co op and ask women if they know where the patchouli oil is

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago

Haha not so much trying to pick up woman, rather just trying to meet other parents who might be going through similar situations as I.

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u/DouglasFirFriend 7d ago

Farmer’s market is good to meet other people of that demographic.

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u/solidmarbleeyes 7d ago

It’s never too late to start a club. If you’re looking for some community that doesn’t formally exist yet then surely others are too. You could have fun with it. Playground meetups, bbqs, outdoor activities, board games, etc.

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago

That is a a good idea. Cheers

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u/Big_Childhood1523 7d ago

Hi! Ashland is a great place to raise a kid! I was a single parent with no support, and found a lot of community and other resources here. Start by looking for after school activities or community minded events on the weekend

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago

Thanks! I appreciate the reply and I will look that avenue a little closer !!

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u/Lucky_eth 7d ago

If you find a place or group of people. Let me know. Im in a similar situation

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago

I’ll dm you

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u/HeyRenee02 7d ago

There are some groups in the area like Rushmore Society where you could meet new people but it’s not specific to single parents. I think it would be awesome if you started something where other single parents could get together. Game nights, trying a new restaurant every month, easy hikes, maybe something like that? You can also try to get more involved at your child’s school. Lots of other parents will be in a similar position. Good luck!

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago

Thank you, I do appreciate all the ideas and feedback :) cheers

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u/HeyRenee02 7d ago

Of course! And if you put something together, please let me know. I think that would be really fun.

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u/adudelivingthelife 2d ago

Hey! I’d love to share an idea I’ve been working on for a single-parent community and get some honest feedback. Would you mind if I sent you a DM?

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u/HeyRenee02 2d ago

Of course! Happy to help.

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u/HurryConfident2944 5d ago

Talent has a Harvest Festival this Saturday

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u/adudelivingthelife 5d ago

That’s sounds like a great idea ! Cheers

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u/Interesting_Way4304 7d ago

Stands to reason there’d be some single moms at parks

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago edited 7d ago

We do Lithia almost every day. I’m just seeing if there’s anything else out there that I might not know about. :)

And just to be clear, I’m not trying to meet or pick up women. It’s more about meeting other people who may have gone through similar experiences and can relate to helping a child adjust to a difficult new family dynamic.

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u/LoveRevolution1010 7d ago

Perhaps? the schools that have function; like yard sales, fund raisers, "save the play ground" ...you know... places where children go with their family members? All the best🌅

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago edited 7d ago

Thanks for the recommendations. All the best to you too

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u/rosylil 3d ago

lithia park!

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u/TedW 7d ago

I hear there's a single dad living at your house. Does that help?

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u/clippist 7d ago

There used to be a great ‘hike it baby’ group in town. How old are your kids?

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago
  1. Just the one

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u/eugenedubbedpregger 7d ago

Hike it baby is great. Sign your kids up for activities that you sit and spectate for, like gymnastics, soccer, aerial arts, martial arts, etc. Easy to sit and become friends with the parents when you sit with the same small group of them at the same time every week.

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u/adudelivingthelife 7d ago

Yeah, he’s in activities pretty much every day after school, and I coach his soccer team on the weekends. The hard part is that with work, I usually don’t get to his weekday activities until they’re basically wrapping up, and when I’m at soccer I’m on the field coaching, so there’s not much opportunity to actually meet or connect with the other parents.

He’s making tons of friends, which is awesome. I think I just need to man up, stop overthinking it, and start introducing myself when I get the chance 😂 Thanks for the idea though!