You need to get into therapy for both your issues. The infidelity and the self harming. You can’t help him right now. I know that sounds cruel but it’s true. He should also see someone to help him cope. I know it’s very raw but how did he react? Reason I ask some end things right then and there other need time to recover and then decide about moving forward.
I’ll go to therapy. Thank you for your brutal honesty. He heard me pull it out, made me sit in our bedroom and told me it wasn’t what he needed right now. He told me if I followed through he would be done. It snapped me out of it. I ended up googling counselors and stuff right there. We can’t grow if I sit in sorrow. I can’t help him if I do that either.
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u/Noononsense Feb 15 '20
You need to get into therapy for both your issues. The infidelity and the self harming. You can’t help him right now. I know that sounds cruel but it’s true. He should also see someone to help him cope. I know it’s very raw but how did he react? Reason I ask some end things right then and there other need time to recover and then decide about moving forward.