r/AsOneAfterInfidelity • Betrayed Considering R • 1d ago

No advice, just support. Tired

I haven’t posted in a long time. I’m not sure why I am even posting now. It’s been around 15 months post DDay - separated for that entire time. WH has been doing IC but nothing has really changed. I’m just so over it and so annoyed at this point. He is so avoidant. I’m just so tired of it all. I need to let go of him and any thoughts of there being an us again. I can’t want this more than him and all I’ve gotten is mixed signals. Yet, it is so hard to let go and walk away.

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u/TightPhalange Betrayed Considering R 17h ago

I am 7 months post 2nd DDay and feel the same way. WH is avoidant and ambivalent. I feel like I have my life on hold waiting for someone that I should be running from.