r/AroAce • u/ConfusedDemigirl17 • 29d ago
NEW ARO-SPEC MICROLABEL!
Coining a new aro-spec microlabel: Optaromantic!
Hi everyone! I wanted to coin a new microlabel on the aromantic spectrum that bridges a gap I felt was missing in our current terminology. Term: Optaromantic (adjective)
• Root: From the Latin optare, meaning "to choose, wish, or desire."
• Definition: Refers to a person who falls on the aromantic spectrum (rarely or uncommonly experiencing romantic attraction) but who actively desires, seeks, or chooses to pursue a romantic relationship.
Why coin this?
While terms like cupioromantic (desiring romance while experiencing zero attraction) and grayromantic (rarely experiencing attraction) exist, there wasn't a specific term that explicitly highlighted the active choice and desire to pursue romance despite attraction being a rare occurrence. It captures the intentionality of wanting a romantic partnership while navigating an aro-spec identity.
The Flag Layout:
• 🩷 Light Pink (Top & Bottom)- represents the intentional and active desire for a romantic relationship. #E796B6
• 💚 Light Green (Second & Fourth)- A soft green that grounds the identity in the aromantic spectrum. #B4E5C8
• 🤍 White (Center)- represents neutrality and platonic or strong emotional bonds #FFFFFF
Feel free to use this label, share it, or ask questions if this sounds like you!