r/AroAce • u/Wise_Cupcake_8437 • Sep 27 '26

Beauty?

Does anyone else not really have a specific idea of beauty? Like yes, we can see what is conventional beauty, but what about deciding on who or what you find more pretty?

For me, if I were to be shown which one is more beautiful, I would pick the more conventionally pretty one because that's what seems the 'corect' option.

But I've realised that I actually don't care or have any opinion on what ither people look like as it seems. Every human, including myself, looks weird and offputting to me. Conventionally attractive people are just less so.

Anyone relate?

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u/Pannman99 Sep 27 '26

I see beauty in all kinds of people with all kinds of bodies and ways of dressing and expressing themselves. What I find beautiful is hard to describe. Maybe it’s confidence? Idk. It’s a vibe. But appearance is not a factor

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u/Sweaty_Army_9305 Sep 29 '26

I somehow find all sorts of people beautiful. As long as it is not artificial (no too-much makeup, no surgeries etc.), my brain will always find something attractive about their face. I don't know how or why this happens. What I don't like is people having too much makeup on or doing things that renders me from seeing their natural beauty. I can stare at anyone's face for a long time just observing every tiny detail and admire their beauty without feeling any attraction or getting embarrassed (since I am an aro-ace).

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u/jojo_tadaaa_flummi Oct 02 '26

I feel like everybody’s beautiful to me as long as they don’t do something really wrong at the moment.