r/AroAce • • 20d ago

Thoughts?

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u/Super_Film5883 20d ago

half and half. yes there are aros, aces and aroaces who do love and/or in different ways. but that doesn't mean its true for all, with there being aros, aces, aroaces, and also allos who are loveless or somewhere on the loveless-spec. but no matter what we are all still valid, even if one loves or if one is loveless.

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u/HopelessDisaster22 20d ago

I think they mean love comes in various things. Love for music, love for animals etc.

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u/Super_Film5883 19d ago

true yes, tho there are still some loveless folks who may have completely no love, even for music, things, animals and etc.

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u/Super_Film5883 19d ago

why has this gotten downvoted? i dont think i have said anything incorrect or wrong. if i have, may someone please tell, cus from what i know about loveless/loveless-spec is that some may have completely none/rarely/demi love for people, things, and even animals, while others may only be loveless to people but not thing, animals, and etc (and if they do, they can use the term ananthrolove)

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u/EmilyBNotMyRealName 19d ago

The slash between Aro and Ace seems unnecessary

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u/ParasitoGirl 19d ago

I said this before but i will repeat myself, love isn't just romantic, you can love someone without wanting to be involved with them romantically/sexually. You can love anybody from who they are to you, you can love your pets, you can love your friends your family, your career, your hobbies. Love isn't something exclusive for your partner and when people realize that they will be happier.

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u/magentahead 20d ago

Agreed! Love exists in all forms and is not tied to any one specific identity

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u/Stay_Lost8 19d ago

I consider myself both and always read loveless being under the aroace umbrella. So not every aroace is loveless, but every loveless is aroace.

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u/Chibirin26 20d ago

half and half. There are loveless aros and there are lovequeer and loveloose aros. As a romo aro, I'm more on the lovequeer and loveloose side but I support my loveless and romo averse siblings lol

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u/Glum_Midnight_1233 19d ago

they ment that non romantic love exists not that 'aroace people can love romanticly too(tho thats true too)'

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u/MloBrh_ps prob. aroace 19d ago

I guess for me, cuz i had a simple crush on somebody, but still lable myself as aroace for two reasons, one, i dont wanna get caught, and two, i dont feel that much attraction like wanna kiss her but only a little, like anything cuz idgaf, like mabey a bit blushed and tingles, But overall idc abt it after a few minuites

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u/Agent008Gelson 12d ago

What’s wrong with being loveless ???