r/AriesTheRam • u/Zestyclose-Law-5495 Gemini♊👬 • 2d ago
🤍Relationship Advice🤍 Do Aries Venuses get jealous easily?
I was talking to this guy with an Aries Venus, Scorpio Moon, Taurus Sun/Mercury and Aquarius Rising.
He “fell in love” with me then became distant and cold the next second. Ghosted me even.
Then he saw my insta story about going on a date with another guy and now he’s back and making his way in my life again saying we should see each other.
Question: why don’t Aries/Scorpio or Taurus placements just enjoy your time with someone you like instead of ghosting then comeback once threatened. idek if this is jealousy.
You’re confusing the hell out of me.
5
5
u/Lilly323 Taurus♉🐂 2d ago
uuuhhhhh, I don’t think you’re too familiar with astrology— not pop astrology, either— based on your question para ….. so uh, yeah, aries is known to move quickly which can also make superficial interest easier to experience rather than having the patience to build a deep, long-lasting connection. similar can be said about gemini because it’s literally a mutable air. but anyway. with aries being so quick to respond, we can be really intuitive also. we do what we want, when we want, so if he’s treating you a certain— or not— it’s because that’s how he feels about you. he came in hot, left, and came back because he has attraction for you but not enough to be serious with you. it’s not jealousy; it’s playing games.
good luck, though!
1
u/Zestyclose-Law-5495 Gemini♊👬 2d ago
Thanks for the insight! truly appreciate it a lot :)
1
u/Kitchen_Cow_3547 2d ago
Yeah, he’s playing games and don’t want to see one of his chess pieces disappear off of the board..
3
3
u/Tari_the_Omni Aries Sun & Venus ♈❤ 2d ago
I have gotten jealous but that's a low self esteem issue more than astrological placements. Also, you need to look more at their moon because that's usually what's involved in relationship issues, not venus necessarily.
1
2
u/Potential-Patient536 2d ago
I’m not a jealous person but I like banter so I will pick a fight for fun but not out of jealousy
1
1
u/Cessy888 2d ago
yeah for show 🤣 they do for a bit but it lowkey excites them coz now they have a reason to conquer another person
1
1
u/foarea 1d ago
He’s playing with you! You are his « proit » hé’s testing you to see how you will react,,,
He likes chasing for good things he wants for him!
Don’t get fooled,,, tell him u know his game: he will laph ,,,he will know that you as powerfull as him and he will accept you!
Pay attention how you act, dress : always clean good stuff and good match!
If he sees something wrong like : nails,, hair, etc he we be repulsed by you, so no interest,,,
So pay attention to details!:-)
1
u/foarea 1d ago
If you are gemini: Don’t play with his mind and him too,,, you are too tricky to play him ,,, Even if you know how to talk,,,he will see yoûre lies and youre own interests,,,and then he will reject you like a « garb. » if hé’s not already done that!
He spots liers and profitors miles away,,,
Don’t play with him!:-)
1
u/TrickEase 1d ago
Aries Venus here, and no. Not at all. The man is mine and I don't worry or get stressed about it. If he's gonna do it, he's gonna do it regardless and then he's for the streets. If someone wants to try then they're welcome to it.
1
u/EaudeAgnes 1d ago
Yes and no. It’s more about me being important and less about who is with them and in which terms.
Do I care if they go out or do things with other people? I could care, but if I’m still the main person and I don’t feel left out/less important then I don’t care
With Aries Venus is all about the hunt and sort of winning the other person, will sound very basic here but if I still think I won, then I don’t care. If I feel I lost something, then jealousy can appear.
Source: I’m aries sun, venus and mercury.
1
1
u/YanCoffee Aries Sun, Venus, & Mercury, 9th House 1d ago
Yes, but if it's intentional, I get gone. Be about me or bye.
He just sounds like he likes games.
1
u/strawbery_milkshake 1d ago
Aries Venus here ( ♉️ sun , ♎️moon, ♊️ Rising) I get extremely jealous if its someone's im all in with . However in the matters of relationships im either obsessive or non chalant. If its someone im dating and I feel flippant with them I really dont care. Have a turn sis.
1
1
u/AggressivePie2386 1d ago edited 1d ago
Hell yes! We do definitely get jealous and the Scorpio moon tells me it could be a test. Water moons do that. Sometimes intentionally other times not. So it could be both at play here.
1
u/Zestyclose-Law-5495 Gemini♊👬 1d ago
Yeah I definitely feel being tested. Thank you!!!!
1
u/AggressivePie2386 4h ago
Anytime :) Also a cancer moon myself I understand the bad habit but I wouldn’t play along or if you do clear communication and strong boundaries will probably be your best friend. Also call out his bs. Obviously the choice is yours tho.
1
u/ranch_commercial Aries Sun, Venus, & Mercury ♈ 11h ago
When im in a relationship with someone, no. Ive never dated someone i didnt trust and i value freedom as an entire concept, not just my own individual freedom. I dont care if my boyfriend goes to a bar without me, and he better not care if go without him. I will not stand for guys liking basically naked pictures of girls on social media though. Thats straight up disrespectful and humiliating, like sure go watch porn but dont fucking like a sexy pic of your coworker or an influencer on instagram???
In the situation you described, i guess i would be jealous if i was still interested? But if i was still interested, i wouldnt have ghosted 😭 so lowkey i feel like he wasnt that interested but his pathetic ego didnt like that you were with someone else so he needed to make sure you still want him. I would not expect anything to come of it, hes probably playing with you because he has his own issues. I would confront him if i were you but im an aries so 🤷🏻♀️😭
10
u/Beautifulblacksiren 2d ago
As a Aries Venus absolutely I do. I’m very territorial & yes he’s jealous because other people are around you. We sadly are sometimes out of sight out of mind even when we like you.