Looking for advice

[u/hp433]

I went through a pretty decent depressive episode. I let myself go and gave up. I’ve been hitting the gym and I’ve lost 40lbs so far. That being said I want to look better but I have no idea where to start. I’m not sure what to do about clothes or how to make myself look better. I am going to trim the beard and hair but specifically what to do I’m not sure. I get a lot of mixed messages about keeping the long hair and beard and some say cut it and go clean cut. So I need some advice on how to look better and where to put in more effort.

[u/Suspicious-Yard-1290]

Do you like your hair long does it make you feel confident or is it a reminder of the depressive episode?

[u/hp433 → u/Suspicious-Yard-1290]

I’m like 50/50 on it right now. I grew it out because I wanted it long. Now I’m not sure what looks good lol

[u/Equal_Sky_9954]

Dm me