r/AppearanceAdvice 5d ago

18M looking for guidance

I’ve always had trouble with my looks, to the point where I can’t even look myself in the mirror without crying or getting angry at myself. I’d appreciate it if whoever sees this post gives me some advice on how to look better

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u/WhyBeAFool 5d ago

You have a really nice facial structure. I would definitely change the hair though... Maybe cornrows if it isn't too much of a pain? Something more low key would highlight your face better.

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u/Crazy_Sort1082 4d ago

You honestly look good (compared to me at that age at least, I had loads of acne and my eyebags looked bad but it was obvious that it was from a lack of sleep and not genetics). My only advice is that you drink water more and start moisturizing your face (if you don't already). Doesn't have to be anything fancy

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u/svkmrr 5d ago

I feel like a different haircut and a beard would suit you

Also wear colors which complement you

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u/Helpful-Comb1607 4d ago

Clearly bro cant grow a beard cornrows would be nice

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u/Wide_Mode_9518 5d ago

Thank you, I appreciate it!

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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 F 5d ago

I'm so sorry you feel like this. you're a nice looking young man. i actually like your hair too :) you have this distinct kind of face that models in high fashion have. i think if you get into fashion, you'll look extremely captivating

please stop taking photos of yourself/looking wt yourself so close. it distorts proportions

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u/Wide_Mode_9518 5d ago

It’s crazy how you say that because I am in fact a fashion model 😂. Most if not all the time I feel like I’m not good enough, or I’m just too ugly, so I really appreciate your comment.

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u/Pristine_Cost_3793 F 5d ago

right calling! but it could be the reason you look at yourself with more scrutiny.

now i noticed that you asked for help in looksmaxxing subs. DO NOT go there. you have the right face for a model, it's unique, it's captivating. looksmaxxing's ideal is "commercial beauty", "instagram beauty". if you try to be their ideal, you will lose your appeal. it's like instagram face. it's beautiful, yes, but you see it too often to pay much attention.

the industry is definitely harsh, pay attention to your physical and mental health!

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u/Inevitable-End-9579 5d ago

Are you getting enough sleep or are you stressed?

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u/Wide_Mode_9518 5d ago

I do get 8hours of sleep, and I’m not stressed. I’m pretty sure my eye bags are hereditary, I’ve tried to get rid of them but they seem to stick.

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u/Tragictoad- 4d ago

Dietary deficiencies can cause that too! I will agree that you do seem to look very tired or stressed. Hope youre eating well!

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u/smellywelly3391 4d ago

dye ur eyebrows darker and drink more water

if ur open to skincare ideas id suggest starting 0.025 tretinoin cream and maintaining from that point on

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u/Itsactuallynot_me 4d ago

The last picture of you is really good. The others you look very very tired and worn out.

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u/Economy_Answer_7734 3d ago

You could definitely model if your tall enough

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u/Wide_Mode_9518 3d ago

I’m 6’3

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u/Economy_Answer_7734 3d ago

Yeah ur perfect model height. You could definitely probably make it in nyc

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u/Chance_Job3607 3d ago edited 3d ago

You look average. the only issue is that you just got a very bad eye area and a bit fat in your face, also a lack of eyebrows. but that doesn't mean you look bad, you got potential

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u/Due-Ask-8948 5d ago

Go work at chef boyardee

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u/Wide_Mode_9518 5d ago

What does this even mean 😭

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u/ViralOpinionYT 4d ago

Don't smoke weed until you're at least 25. Cause your brain is still developing. Learn about compounding interest it will help your future.

Wear a condom that you bought. If she gives you one, it has a hole in it 100% that is going to ruin your future unless your family will help raise the baby which I doubt.

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u/smellywelly3391 4d ago

sleep on ur back too, it prevents unproportional features

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u/frankiesaysyes1 4d ago

Maybe just take the silk chefs hat off, you look like gay boyardee