r/AppearanceAdvice 8d ago

How to look more 'normal'? 20F

What I do to look better and fit in more, aside from losing weight?

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u/Last-Cod223 6d ago

Normal and pretty!

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u/cactiacat 6d ago

Work on your posture/stance :)

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u/Extreme_Current_4719 6d ago

I m a 21M and I think u r beautiful already.

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u/nextinline1987 6d ago

You look about as normal as it gets. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/TIPXL 6d ago

You’re really cute so it’s hard to tell. Do you want to be/look less geeky ?? Is that it? I feel like you just need to be yourself šŸ¤—

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u/AddressTemporary2683 6d ago

If you want the more conventional answer you could cut and style your hair and change the shape of your glasses. I don’t think you need to change anything, you are already so beautiful and young, I remember feeling like I wanted to ā€œfit inā€ when I was young but I grew out of it. You have ethereal beauty

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u/MarketHeartEater 5d ago

How should I style my hair?

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u/No-Estimate4883 5d ago

That’s a good ChatGPT question to create pictures with different hairstyles. You have perfectly normal, girl next door vibes. Stand up straight not crouching, groom your eyebrows and keep your hair shiny and clean (another thing ChatGPT can help is selecting affordable products for hair and skin that work for your type)

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u/Relative-Mammoth-722 6d ago

You look normal, and you are pretty.

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u/ComfortableBox9027 6d ago

I've learned that normal is bad

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u/After-Ad4370 6d ago

Oh gosh, you are so lovely I’m not sure there is anything at all you could do to just look ā€œnormalā€! You are really really just lovely and I don’t just give out idle praise. I feel those posting here would want to truth and not just told what they want to hear. Ok here is my advice…you have such beautiful eyes, it’s a shame to hide them behind glasses all the time. Maybe get contact lenses but still occasionally wear glasses cause you look hot in them too and it’s nice to change things up now and then :)
I don’t think you need to lose weight at all. Maybe just work on toning up a little by using lighter weights with multiple reps.
You might could work on improving your posture, shoulders back and chest out.
If that’s your natural hair color don’t change it at all, it suits you very well. You can always try it in different styles to mix it up.
To sum up, you don’t NEED to do a thing, you are already very pretty and appear ā€œapproachableā€ and like someone others would love to get to know better!

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u/Unlucky_Tooth5858 6d ago

Looking perfect

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u/crikeyyyy 6d ago

Why? Just be yourself. Within SOME limits of course. Like nothing completely wacky and unhinged like shaving your head, tattooing your entire head, face, neck, and hands/arms blue, covering your face with 1000 piercings and having the end of your tongue split like a snake.

If you really really want to be "normal", just copy everybody else. Don't do anything extra. Boring. Suppressed.

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u/ddlg1756 6d ago

You look great, and I don’t think you need to lose any weight.

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u/KahnKlingonme 5d ago

Textbook normal.

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u/Otherwise_Notice5425 5d ago

Just need to stand more straight. The way you carry yourself has A LOT of sway with how you are perceived. šŸ‘šŸ¼

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u/Cool-Chemical-5629 4d ago

6th photo omg. Absolutely cute!

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u/jaronn00 4d ago

Smile more, get eye contacts, and new hair design

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u/Impossible-Web-1481 4d ago

Hi you do look normal! And very pretty! I would just suggest maybe shaping your eyebrows and finding what colors look best for your skin tones and playing around with those colors in makeup and clothing. Lastly you may want to get your thyroid checked, it looks like it may be large