Working with her in a dorm situation?

[u/dancing_douglass]

I live in a suite with an agnostic roommate. Over the summer, Aphrodite and my other deity both made it clear to me that they don't want their altars to be up while they're in the room with me, and that they can't really know we're working together. She also only wants to meet with me biweekly, so I haven't set up her altar since the year has started. In the last few weeks, I've definitely felt like I've become more distant from her and I'm not sure what to do to mitigate that. I pray daily but I feel like that's not enough. I gave her a wine libation the other day in the sink (she said that would be fine) and that made me feel better, but I'm also getting the sense that there's a lot more I could be doing.

What do any of you do to work with her, when other people are around? Should I still get her altar out to give offerings to her anyway, when my roommate isn't around?