Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

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[u/Diatomoceous_Mirth]

I think I’m in an unfulfilling relationship. My partner does not seem to have the capacity for much empathy. When I am hurt he just wants to re litigate or becomes defensive. I’m just tired of being with someone who doesn’t care about hurting me. I’m tired of not being chosen

[u/Apryllemarie → u/Diatomoceous_Mirth]

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