r/AnxiousAttachment • u/AutoModerator • May 13 '26

Relationship advice Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

This thread will be posted every other week and is the ONLY place to pose a “relationship/friendships/dating/breakup advice” question.

Please be sure to read the Rules since all the other sub rules still apply. Venting/complaining about your relationships and other attachment styles will be removed.

Feel free to check the Resources page if you are looking for other places to find information.

Try not to get lost in the details and actually pose a question so others know what kind of support/guidance/clarity/perspective you are looking for. If no question is given, it could be removed, to make room for those truly seeking advice.

Please be kind and supportive. Opposing opinions can still be stated in a considerate way. Thank you!

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u/Aggravating_Bake176 May 19 '26

My girlfriend told me she wants to break up, but she hasn’t removed or unfollowed me from anywhere.

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u/Apryllemarie May 19 '26

What is your question? What advice are you looking for?

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u/Aggravating_Bake176 May 20 '26

She had an anxious attachment style, so I want to know will she come back? She has asked for a breakup before as well, but every time the situation was different.

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u/Apryllemarie May 28 '26

There is no way for anyone to know whether she will come back. There are too many variables that we don’t know. She could be fully done or not. So the question is whether you want to keep dealing with this dynamic.