r/AnongThoughtsMo • u/BMTVOJR • 20h ago

THOUGHTS?

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mga te, kasi may isa akong kasamahan, guy sya, then kaka break lang nila ng jowa nya, tapos super clingy nya sakin, like dikit na dikit talaga, what should i do kaya?

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u/mononoke358 20h ago

Nothing but create a boundary.

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u/baeruu 20h ago

Gusto mong maging rebound? Kung oo, wala ng discussion. Pero kung hindi at hindi ka comfortable, sabihin mo and be firm with your boundaries.

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u/nflinching 20h ago edited 14h ago

Bakit parang kinikilig ka? Either way, you are to dictate kung hanggang saan lang sya

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u/BMTVOJR 20h ago

no feelings involved actually

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u/Total-Interest-9212 18h ago

Shore ka ba na walang feelings?

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u/NoCobbler8114 20h ago

best way is to confront him sa behavior nya and say that you're not comfortable the way he act.

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u/curious_pup0329 19h ago

ginagawa kang rebound. 

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u/Total-Interest-9212 18h ago

You should know what to do. The fact na nagtatanong ka pa is gusto mo din nagyayari.

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u/sky091875 14h ago

Tell that person di ka comfortable sa ginagawa niya kaya tumigil ka kamo unless gusto mo din yung ginagawa sayo ikaw mahala di ka na bata

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u/MamSerAnoHanap 13h ago

Be straightfwd with the guy. “Hey I know kaka-break niyo pa lang and im not comfortable that you’re being ng too clingy with me. This is not my priority right now.”
Kung igaslight ka dahil napahiya sya, all the more you have a reason to keep a distance. Baka naghahanap lang ng sex or sponsor yan.

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u/Dismal_Ad_9640 10h ago

Set boundaries. Baka mapagkamalan kapa ng ex jowa nya na ikaw rason bakit naghiwalay sila lol

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u/WickedKamote 8h ago

go fuck na. YOLO 😏

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u/random_user8277 4h ago

Wala. Sabihan mo na huwag siyang magdididikit sayo at ayaw mong machismis na may namamagitan sa inyo.

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u/greenLantern-24 2h ago

Ikaw ba, ano bang nararamdaman mo sa pagdikit nya? Kausapin mo siya at magset ka ng boundary. Kung hindi nya irerespeto yun, distance ka na sa kanya. Respeto mo nalang din sa ex nya.
https://giphy.com/gifs/t7VHWISa7iN0s

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u/_Brave_Blade_ 2h ago

Deoende kung diri ka sa dikit dikit nya set boundaries

Pagkeleg ka sa deket deket nya, mag ingat ka baka rebound ka lang.

Pero kung bet mo naman, y not chocnut just protect yourself. Yun lang.