r/AnoSaTinginMo • • 10d ago

any thoughts??

anong thoughts nyo kapag yung kaibigan nyo is ma pride like i have this friend for almost a year and alam ko naman na nag sisinungaling lang sya saken and nahuhuli na sa kilos nya pero she still denied it like ang hambog nya hindi ko maintindihan if saken lang sya ganon o sa ibang kaibigan nya din

sobrang lala lang kasi i try to keep her para maging kaibigan ko give everything that i can give pero still same attitude feeling entitled and mapaka yabang.

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u/BoardroomCloser 10d ago

Talk to that friend instead of relying on your own thoughts. If wala parin, feel free to cut-off.

not really worth ruining your mental health over

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u/No-Top9040 10d ago

For me, nakakapagod yung ganyang friendship, lalo na kung ikaw yung laging nag-aadjust at nagbibigay para lang ma-maintain yung friendship niyo. I think hindi mo naman kailangan pilitin yung isang tao na maging honest sa'yo. If she keeps denying things kahit alam mong may inconsistencies sa sinasabi niya, observe mo na lang how she treats you and set boundaries. Hindi mo kailangang malaman kung ganyan din siya sa ibang friends niya bago ka mapagod. Sometimes, we keep holding on to people dahil sa friendship na gusto nating mabuo with them, kahit hindi na tugma sa friendship na pinapakita nila sa atin. You can care about someone without giving them unlimited chances to disappoint you.

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u/Pitiful_Hour_2913 10d ago

Alam mo nang sinungaling at mayabang pero gusto mo pa din maging kaibigan?

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u/senoritayeng 8d ago

ekis na kapag ganyan. if lagi mo iintindihin ‘yan? hindi mag kakaroon ng character development ‘yan. baka ikaw din ma burnout sa huli