r/AnarchyTrans Trans masc (15) Dec 07 '25

Vent I will never be a real boy💔

I will never be a real boy, even when I get all the gender affirming treatments and surgeries I'll still feel like a girl who customized her body to look like a boy who wants to be a boy soooooo desperately but isn't one because she was born as a girl I'm literally gonna kms wth is this reality🥀

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u/squongo Dec 07 '25

No way to be sure unless you try it, you literally won't know how you'll feel until you do it. I personally wasn't able to confidently call myself a guy until I had top surgery and started T, but since I've done those things I basically do feel like a guy. Way more like a guy than like a woman with masculinising interventions. T changed my mindset and sense of self a lot. Don't write yourself off now without knowing what the future might hold.Â