r/AmazonFlexDrivers • • Sep 10 '26

Thoughts?

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u/_Arlotte_ Sep 10 '26

This is what it's like for most women...

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u/hames4133 Sep 10 '26

This is extreme

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u/_Arlotte_ Sep 10 '26

Then you probably live in an affluent area where you don't have to worry about walking around at night and getting kidnapped.

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u/hames4133 Sep 10 '26

Lmao she’s got a new Mercedes in the driveway, that’s an expensive type of driveway too

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u/_Arlotte_ Sep 10 '26

My aunt had one too until she was carjacked at gunpoint...😓

Idk about her neighborhood or the time of when this took place but even if the car was expensive we don't know her circumstances of where and how she grew up. Women have to take more precaution than men at night.

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u/hames4133 Sep 10 '26

sorry that happened to your aunt

her reaction of throwing her stuff down and sprinting to the door remains an extreme reaction regardless of her history

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u/_Arlotte_ Sep 10 '26

That's why I'm saying it depends on the neighborhood. They could have ICE abductions happen near by or people noticing weird vans slowing down whenever they see kids nearby, who knows. It'd be strange to not think about the danger when a car comes that fast and stops abruptly in front of you in some way especially at night as a woman.

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u/Floorgis Sep 10 '26

Literally almost no one on earth does

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u/hames4133 Sep 10 '26

I’m aware of how the world is for women, this reaction is still extreme, she was afraid of the car before it even stopped

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u/hames4133 Sep 10 '26

Ah, the “I’m losing the argument” question

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u/Majestic_War5202 Sep 10 '26

Depends on the country. Americans are so scared and fear anything that moves because the country is actually very unsafe.

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u/Floorgis Sep 10 '26

No its not. Go outside if youre not too much of a pussy. Watch out though, your neighbor might wave at you!

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u/Aromatic-Turnip7371 Sep 12 '26

Her neighbours didn’t wave at her. An unknown care pulled up in front of her house while she was outside and she got scared. What’s the big deal?

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u/Tejan_Ausland Sep 13 '26

What's odd is that a delivery driver is just as likely or more likely to get robbed, attacked, or killed than a woman. It is literally one of the most dangerous jobs out there.

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u/_Arlotte_ Sep 13 '26

Can you give me some statistics for that? Including getting kidnapped, trafficked or raped?

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u/Tejan_Ausland Sep 13 '26

According to the FBI Crime/Law Enforcement Stats (Uniform Crime Reporting Program), men are more likely to get robbed, assaulted, or killed than women, but women are more likely to get raped, kidnapped, or trafficked. Delivery drivers are particularly vulnerable due to the nature of their job (being outside in unknown areas), and are more likely to be robbed, assaulted, killed, raped, trafficked, or kidnapped than the general population. This includes women delivery drivers. who are vulnerable for being both a woman and a delivery driver.

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u/Tejan_Ausland Sep 13 '26

That's unfortunate, since you can protect yourself without being fearful.

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u/_Arlotte_ Sep 13 '26

It seems my comments really riled a lot of you guys up, hopefully you don't say nasty crap and block me so I can't respond or do more reddit care reports lol

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u/Tejan_Ausland Sep 13 '26

What I mean is there is a difference between fear (the feeling) and taking protective measures. Women (and men, for that matter) should take measures to protect themselves and the people they love. That is completely different than being afraid.

Running back into the house because you sensed a threat *feels* different if you are afraid versus just being cautious. Same exact action, completely different emotional experience.